Is it wrong to date your bestfriend ex?

i think there's nothing wrong with that....it just makes everything uncomfortable

 

me ho ging ar! i know i know.. i sometimes give myself an -clapclap -bigclap for being so ging -innocent2

 

I never understood why it's wrong to date your best-friend's ex. From the way I see it, their relationship didn't work out because of incompatibility. Maybe you would have more things in common with him. As for me, I'm dating a family friend's ex...and I don't feel at all awkward or uncomfortable. It doesn't jeopardize my friendship between a family friend...even if I'm not very fond of her anyways.

 

????????

 

well, i think alot of people here are saying it's the awkwardness. and the fact that he/she has "been there, done that". do you really want your best friend to have "been there, done that" with your gf?

 

i dont get what u said adrianc lol

 

I think I might not mind if it was the other way around. Like if I broke up with my girlfriend and her friend wants to date me, then I wouldn't care that much.

 

I will explain to you ler... Since I am -innocent2 today.

Adrianc's reply is unrelated to the thread topic. Topic asking is it okay if YOU date your best friend's ex;
but his reply is more to the question Is it OK if your BEST FRIEND dates your ex... -_-2

"I like/love you so much that your wish is granted, and whatever you want, you shall have " to the ex of course.

Meaning:

He's either saying he loves his ex so much that he lets her have her freedom and lets her be with his best friend if she wants to; or he is just being sarcastic.

to the ex-stealing friend, wtf are u thinking? I will help u become smarter!!!
i.e. idiot (IQ=10-30), retarded (IQ=30-50), imbecile (IQ=40-50), hehe. something like that

Meaning:
To his best friend that stole his (ex)gf, he's calling him an Idiot (IQ of -20), Retarded (IQ of -20) or Imbecile (IQ of -10)

 

Actually, if you're unforgiving, then sure

 

i think is ok lo... cause u know her deep enough from previous friendship
the relationship mostly will just a lvl higher !
but come to yr best friend part, he might felt that u put a skru driver and dig up his relationship

 

FOUND IT thnx for explanation miss.angel.for.1.day

 

Hmm.. I wouldn't say its right or wrong, but for me personally, I wouldnt. Usually, once a friend has a partner (gf/bf), that partner becomes forbidden to me (forever) xD...so even if I thought of them as attractive in someway, having a relationship with them wouldnt be a possibility.

I kno some ppl dont mind tho (eg. my cousin whos currently dating my ex)

 

I don't know what you meant exactly by "unforgiving, then sure". but, it's not so much about being unforgiving or not. to me, it's the ickyness/weirdness ... knowing my best friend been there, done that. i understand everyone has a past ... but your best friend's ex? no thks!

 

^I think she meant FORGIVING..

 

well then, i guess my answer is still valid. not about forgiving the girl ... i just don't pick up after my buddy.

 

Agreed =]

 

sometimes it becomes sick when that happens IMO.

I know these brothers (white doods), and you know what happened?

One of the brothers had a son with this chick; then the chick ditches him, and went for her brother. Now she has a son with her "new" husband...

some ppl are really messed up just for sex or something

 

did you meant the chick went for his brother? and her son has a "new" daddy that's suppose to be his uncle?

 

yea. the chick had kids with each of the brothers. so her kids are half brothers.

ROFLMAO. Really messed up white ppl