Do you have problems giving compliments to the opposite sex?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by Maverick, May 20, 2007.

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Do you have problems giving compliments to the opposite sex?

  1. NO

    60.7%
  2. YES

    21.4%
  3. I, dunno

    17.9%
  1. Maverick

    Maverick Lord Vader

    I just wonder if any of you have problems with giving compliments to the opposite sex?
    So the main question in the poll is:
    Do you have problems giving compliments to the opposite sex?
    - No
    - Yes
    - I dunno


     
  2. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    ^Wow, first time I see Mav in the love -blush2 and relationship section...

    -bigsmile
     
  3. Maverick

    Maverick Lord Vader

    Who is talking ... Is this the good or the bad Brain ... -huh
    Like all men, I also need TLC ;)
     
  4. SugaCutie0

    SugaCutie0 Well-Known Member

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    I personally dont have trouble with it, but then sometimes my compliment gets misconstrued into something else<_< thats sad, three months without not even one compliment?... I usually get a compliment at least 2 or 3 times a week about how lovely I look.. *not being vain, just honest*
     
  5. Maverick

    Maverick Lord Vader

    ... if I give compliment ... ppl think I'm flirting ... >.<
     
  6. SugaCutie0

    SugaCutie0 Well-Known Member

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    lol! MavM.D.'s a flirt....lol jk I will admit, some guys do come off as being as the article stated "lecherous," but some do come off as just being kind and honest as well...
     
  7. Maverick

    Maverick Lord Vader

    That is why I don't give compliments in office ...
     
  8. SugaCutie0

    SugaCutie0 Well-Known Member

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    Ahh, well, better to play it safe, Mav. lol before some desperate girl calls sexual harassment on you..
     
  9. Maverick

    Maverick Lord Vader

    Yeah, too many cultures in office ... need to play it safe.
    So don't expect any compliments from me -bigsmile
     
  10. SugaCutie0

    SugaCutie0 Well-Known Member

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    lol I remember one time, Oo, a long time ago.. I was temping in some office as the receptionist, and on my last day, one of the office guys gave me a couple flowers and thanked me for being there..lol it was just in the manner in which he did that, it came off as one of the most sweetest things that happened to me at work, instead of it being creepy.. lol so I guess it really is all about how you pay that compliment.
     
  11. Maverick

    Maverick Lord Vader

    Hmmm sometimes I want to give a compliment to a lady, but it is very difficult if there are lots of other ladies in the neighborhood ... (like lambs the come in packs and are never alone)
    Here comes the delilmma:
    - Compliment her, with the risk that the other start thinking things
    - Compliment all, just to cover up
    - Compliment nobody ...
     
  12. SugaCutie0

    SugaCutie0 Well-Known Member

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    I'd stick to not complimenting anybody..
     
  13. The_Jelly

    The_Jelly NSFW? :P

    Safer, considering your situation Mav, that is.
     
  14. 無得頂

    無得頂 Well-Known Member

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    I give most of my compliments in a joking way. Whether the females believe me or not is up to them.
     
  15. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    Even without complimenting anyone, my teacher still says im a flirt.

    Back to topic, will definitely compliment where its due. ;)
     
  16. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    Mav, It's still Buttercup here... ie. Good.
    You can tell from my sig -sweat

    Aww come let me gif u some TLC -hug -kiss1

    and to answer your question:

    No I dun have problems, but if the guy is already quite vain and egoistic, I keep quiet.
    If he's usually a nice humble guy, then sure, I'd compliment him... :)
     
  17. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    sugacutie, is ur avatar a pic of ur face? cuz if thats the case, imma have to compliment u on that cuz u have nice eyes even tho seen from the side.
     
  18. brown_bear

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    errr i give compliments to everyone who deserves them :D so nope no problems there
     
  19. i give compliments when i think the one deserve it ar... like saying bbear is leng lue -lol
     
  20. brown_bear

    brown_bear ☆‧° ☆﹒﹒‧ ☆ ﹒﹒‧☆‧° ☆

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    you'll have to change your ways when we actually meet....prepare for the biggest shock of your life.....i guarantee your face to be exactly like this -shock