what does it mean?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by whoaitselaine, May 27, 2007.

  1. whoaitselaine

    whoaitselaine Well-Known Member

    what does it mean when you think the guy you like likes you, but he says he "doesn't really wanna go out with anyone right now"? i didn't tell him i like him but he was talking about his ex and it just came up, somehow. so what does it mean when he says that? does it mean that he doesn't like anyone? >.<
     
  2. fearless_fx

    fearless_fx Eugooglizer

    unless he like JUST got out of a relationship it probably means he just doesn't like you in particular... sigh.. its a sad truth
     
  3. whoaitselaine

    whoaitselaine Well-Known Member

    but what if they broke up like maybe a few months to a year ago? -unsure
     
  4. fearless_fx

    fearless_fx Eugooglizer

    lol i dunno.. iv told maybe... 3 girls that i 'wasn't interested in dating at the moment' and my real reason behind all 3 was that i wasn't really attracted to any of them.

    Of course this is just me and im not exactly a good representative sample of the entire male population... there could be all sorts of other factors. hahaha this is just the way i see it.
     
  5. 無得頂

    無得頂 Well-Known Member

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    Maybe he doesn't know you like him.
     
  6. don

    don ello

    i also think it doesn't mean a whole lot.....he just doesn't know you like him
     
  7. fearless_fx

    fearless_fx Eugooglizer

    i actually misread your op lol... if you didnt actually tell him that you like him then that changes shit... he might just wanna be single for a while
     
  8. KingPin

    KingPin Well-Known Member

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    nah it just means he needs time has he freshly broken up with his ex? may be he's still sore? hang on in there.
     
  9. pinkapples

    pinkapples Well-Known Member

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    Well, give it some time. Probably he just wanna take a break from the complicated world of relationship. However, dont have your hopes up too high for anything may happen at this point. If after some time he still doesn't make a move i think sweety you got your answer...>.<
     
  10. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    1) He's not attracted to you; or
    2) He is not ready to start a relationship with you; or
    3) He doesn't know you like him... so, you might still haf a chance
     
  11. most of the time if boys say that... they just really dont want a relationship..
    but it might change ;)
     
  12. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member

    mostly right. but I think you forgot this.

    4) He does NOT know he likes you yet/

    you might think guys know right away, but sometimes it takes a guy a while to figure out that. it is not always black and white
     
  13. most guys are stupid with detecting that... dont be shy and tell em! -bigclap
     
  14. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    Yep possible too.. but that will go under #1 :p
     
  15. adrianc

    adrianc Well-Known Member

    i say don;t jump the gun, just make him realise it himself
     
  16. yea ur right.. prolly you will scare the boy away if a girl chase the boy :p
     
  17. whoaitselaine

    whoaitselaine Well-Known Member

    lol i think its sorta weird when girls confess to guys ^^;
     
  18. yea it is kinda.. but cmon... we live in the 21th century... things changes... why cant girls confess stuff :p
     
  19. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    Definitely. But then, if u don't do it and the guy's an extremely shy dude... both of u are doomed... lol
    So, if u are really into the guy, then who cares abt 'pride' :p
    Oh well, I am just saying. I, personally, have never made the 1st move. lol
     
  20. yea hahha ive seen that before lol... i hate it since im shy >.< that really foks up much..