You are a saint alright...hahahah But from a chick's point of view, its always good to have some 'si kei' just in case he plans to stray and dump ya... Then at least you have case and not nuts.....-blush
Right... A man can have millions in his account and be broke a few years later; if he's foolish enough to spend all and earn nothing. On the other hand, someone may have zilch in his bank account, but he may end up being a successful entrepreneur later. I would say, the most important thing is the guy must have a drive to succeed and hardworking enough to make it happen. If he's careful and realistic enough with his career plans, then the gal should feel secure.
The creator of this thread must be from the stone age!!! Gals of nowadays are self-sufficient. They are financially independent. They don't need men -cry2
Who believe in love nowadays. That's lil girls' fantasy. A large part of a relationship is about money. Anyone can fall for or be nice to another, but a big part of keeping a relationship going is money. This is reality! whoever agreed with me, push my thanks button.
Hmm, did I even say that... I believed I said it wouldn't matter if the guy has zero in his bank account as long as he has the drive to succeed, hardworking enuf to make it happen and his career plans are ambitious but realistic enough.
A large part of a relationship is about the guy's money. Girls will feel like they are being cheated on if they have to use their own money.
i think a couple of things to consider here ... 1) does a guy want a girl if the girl tells you that you need to have millions in order for her to have that sense of security? if not, then 2) why bother finding out how much is enough? having said that, realistically, you do need money to survive in this world. and I have seen so many friends got divorced due to financial difficulties. as unromantic as that sounds, when a relationship faces financial difficulties, people tend to argue alot and that does hurt the relationship. as for how much, well, i guess financial independence is more important than a certain amt. however it certainly helps with millions in the bank. and no worries about managing it. they have companies and people to manage it for you for a fee.
