poseing that your poor

Discussion in 'The Rant Section' started by smallrinilady, May 29, 2007.

  1. dim8sum

    dim8sum ♫♪♫♪♫♪♫♪♫♪♫♪....

    i see i see, god consumerism at its worst
     
  2. nyckeion

    nyckeion ....Boo....

    next time tell her to treat you or something and see what she says tell her that you forgot your wallet lets see how she reacts and say like oh we know each other for so long its okay or something if she starts pounding on you for you to pay her back ditch her she isnt a friend
     
  3. smallrinilady

    smallrinilady Well-Known Member



    no she's the opposite
    she's very WELL off
    but she acts and claims she has no money

    but that's very hard to believe when watching her actions


    her family back at home in HK have of two BMW
    and her mom has their maid wipe down the cars everyday
    so . . .
     
  4. Marrow

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    Man.. my friend has parents who are both doctors and they both earn a good sum.
    But he says he's poor because his parents do not give him any allowance.

    He can't even go shopping. It's more like his parents going out and buying him some weird clothing and him having to like it.

    But I think conservatism is a good habit. Helps you save up for college etc.
     
  5. nyckeion

    nyckeion ....Boo....

    for ppl to own cars and have parking space for the cars in HK is freaking rich... i can voucher for that
     
  6. ImInLove

    ImInLove Well-Known Member

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    I also have a kind of friend like that. Saying she has no money but she is the richest from all of us! spending 30 euro for a birthdaypresent for her own BF is expensive but the next day she buys a pair of jeans of 120 euro for herself.
     
  7. hell may she doesn't want you guys feelin' bad because she's got all that money...

    watch she spend it in front of yall you girls gonna be like that bitch snobby spoiled rich...
     
  8. smallrinilady

    smallrinilady Well-Known Member

    nope not like that
    she doesn't want us watching her spending the money
    than making her feel guilty for spending it
    becuase if we go shopping with her
    we will say things like, "that's not worth that money"
    and make her feel guilty or bad because she has NO self control and is just spoiled

    also she pretends to have no money sometimes, so she can actually be cheap
    cheap towards her friends and cheap when with her friends, like pretending that she doesn't owe them money, or always making them drive because gas is expensive
     
  9. 無得頂

    無得頂 Well-Known Member

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    That is quite immature. She is still young, when she gets older, society will change her.
     
  10. smallrinilady

    smallrinilady Well-Known Member

    i think she may be going through that change in the next few years

    but becuase she is still use to be being spoiled
    due to the fact she's not getting what she wants
    it's shoving her into a deep depression
     
  11. gawain187

    gawain187 Well-Known Member

    If i had a friend that takes advantages of me I would immediately contact them less or even none. Who needs friends like these?
     
  12. nyckeion

    nyckeion ....Boo....

    she is still changing... when she loses everyone around her then she will really change thats really the only thing that can change her
     
  13. iiimj4everiii

    iiimj4everiii Well-Known Member

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    i hate rich ppl. but i love to tell them to buy food for me xD
     
  14. mtree

    mtree Well-Known Member

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    god i cant stand people who are like that
    although this girl reaaaaally has no manners
     
  15. mizzy818

    mizzy818 Member

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    those kind of people r baisically just begging for money and free stuff
     
  16. smallrinilady

    smallrinilady Well-Known Member


    yea, have a rich person their poor bf to buy them (expensive) food
     
  17. ahhbailey

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    she isn't your friend, lol
     
  18. mtree

    mtree Well-Known Member

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    in rinilady's case id hate it but if you think of it this way : your friends rich but douse not brag or your friend is rich and brags about it 24/7
     
  19. gogo123

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    Do you realize that you've been used like the paper shopping bag at the grocery store? Obviously, your "friend?" is making you pay because she feels that she can get away with it, and that its a "must" on your part.

    Why be friends with those who can't buy their own stuff with their own money and assume everything is free and given to them just because. Drop her like a rock, otherwise you continue to be frustrated with her antics.
     
  20. ProjectD

    ProjectD VIP yay :]

    well i dont have any friends that are like that so i never experience this kind of scenario, but if you feel that explain it to her and than if she doesnt change why be friends