not really.... if it was a close relationship and she cheated on me, id cheat on her and move on.. but theres something about a long relationship thats different...
So..? In other words; even if she's someone u like, u still wouldn't start a long d rlsp bcoz u r afraid of being cheated on, right?
you know what... i dont know.. im just going crazy about what system i should get... it kills my brain trying to choose a damn system.. so no more brain power to think about this....
Can't always be afraid of being cheated. Are you lacking that much confidence in yourself dann? A relationship is all about trust.
^Lol.. true. I am more undecided on the lack of physical closeness part. A normal couple could go dating every day or at least once a week; and I'd haf to settle for once or twice a year... lol
If a girl decides to cheat on you, she doesn't respect the relationship very much. You cheating back on her won't make much of a difference unless it makes yourself feel better.
#3 and yes, i've taken into account the "i like someone else already" but i'm more future oriented. i'd take into account what would happen if i did have a long-distance relationship and come to the conclusion that i'd probably worry myself to death if some sort of doubt did arise somehow and it wouldn't last.
Eh, can't choose between #1 and #3. If one would meet the Mr. (Almost) Perfect who's living at a long distance but they are able to keep a fulfilling relationship I think it's worth a try. But how big is the chance to meet the Mr. (Almost) Perfect? Perhaps it's safer to stay single until you meet the right one living somewhat closer to you.
Interestingly, people tend to pick #3 bcoz they are worried about cheating and not because of the lack of physical closeness eh? Why am I the only one thinking of that... lol
yea... you really are the only one thinking of that. you know what? i dont really care about the cheating. cheating is not the reason why i chose number three.
If someone is physically near you but their heart is somewhere else, the relationship is still useless.
dammit man. this talk of cheating is seriously ticking me off. mmd, i have no idea why youre constantly trying to repeat that close relationships is useless if the partner doesnt want to continue anymore. and i dont know why you keep saying i lack trust and shit. i dont need lecture on this. i got it the first time. now lets move on. -angry
I didn't say I want someone to be near me coz that'd be easier for me to keep an eye on him or keep him from cheating. I want someone close to me so I can do what a normal couple would do. It's rather pointless having someone when I can't be with the person anytime I feel like seeing him or going out together. Of course not! -innocent2
