Do you think it is wrong to fall out of love in a relationship? Especially if there is a third party? Do you think it is best to end the relationship if you fall for someone else? Shall we follow our heart in love or follow our brains?
Do you think it is wrong to fall out of love in a relationship? well, was there love in the first place or was it just infatuation? and i'm also thinking if there was love, it's possible for the amount of love to decline.. it happens sometimes. Especially if there is a third party? umm.. well. i don't know if you'd fall out of love but perhaps love less? i don't think anyone ever stops loving someone. perhaps you love less, but there's love there nonetheless whether it be in a "i love you" only as a friend or some other kind of love. Do you think it is best to end the relationship if you fall for someone else? again, if you can "fall" for someone else, i'd doubt there was love in the first place with that first person. but i think it's best to be truthful, no matter the circumstance. Shall we follow our heart in love or follow our brains? haha.. uhh. i think it's a mix of both.
if a relationship doesnt work out...-> end it. if ending a relationship because of 3rd party... -> jerk.
Love is hard to define. I'm trying so hard to forget someone , but i cant. i meet lots of other girls trying to forget her , but i still cant. the girls are much prettier too.... i think deep in my heart this girl was the one ! i dont think this girl ever loved me so sad! Its been over 5 months now! CAn someone tell me how i can forget her 4 ever and wash away the memories. Help
^It takes time, be patient ... Some people have problems getting over it even after years. It just shows how sentimental you are
Even tho she broke my heart! I still wish her the best in her life! I hope it can go away cause its actually distracting me in my personal life!
^ I know it can be hard... but believe me, time heals everything. Just that some people takes longer.
do you honestly wish her the best? or do you secretly hopes she'll come back to you so you can dump her?
serious i do hope her the best! I dont think i can take her back cause she broke my heart , even tho in my heart i would love to get her back. My heart melted when she send me a a big heart and said happy vday, i still dont understand y she would do that, so she can make fun of me!
no, she could probably actually mean it as friends, cause even after a relationship, there is still something inside of you for that person. It's cruel, esp is you are the one that got dumped, but what if she is trying to be friends maybe? Only time can heal your emotional wounds, so just give it time, the more you try to rush it, the more you think of her, the harder your making it for yourself, just go on with your life and stop trying so hard...
It's not wrong to fall out of love in a relationship.. can't be logical when we're talking about feelings... It really depends on you, if u want to break up or not.. like what kinda person are u.. would u end a relationship that lasted for x amount of time and go explore in this new relationship? r the feelings for ur BF/GF really gone or is it just the thrill of something new has appeared in ur life that u want to try? need to ask urself these questions... Follow your heart, but use your brain to make this as less painful as possible for everyone. Think before you act.. don't be impulsive!
@kevboi: perhaps she's treating you like a friend and sends all her friends that? but on the other hand, 5 months is nothing compared to some stories i've heard where it takes a year or more to "get over" someone. it doesn't necessarily mean she was "the one", it just means your feelings haven't gone away yet.
Do you think it is wrong to fall out of love in a relationship? - No. Especially if there is a third party? - No. You can't restrict your heart from emotions. Do you think it is best to end the relationship if you fall for someone else? -Err. That's a no brainer... Shall we follow our heart in love or follow our brains? - That's one question we all ask ourselves sometimes. If you go into a rlship just based on emotions and feelings then that is all 100% heart, but what about the future and other things that might affect the rlship (school/work, finances, family, and etc.)? I think you need to use both when falling in love
Agree - most of us tend to go into a relationship based on 'fate' or emotions. Ending a relationship because u have 'fallen out out of love' or 3rd party involvement is an excuse. Basically means there is no guarantee of 'forever' in love and relationship. And if there is no more feelings, may as well break-up or end it.
kevboi: I'm 4 years out of my r/ship and still finding a cure to heal the wounds, so I'd say...5months? Give yourself more time. Hope you'll get over it soon. I know how you feel I guess it's not wrong to fall out of a r/ship. When the feelings are gone, I don't suppose it's a healthy r/ship anymore. To be together out of obligation not only makes both parties suffer, it's also unfair to hang on because you don't want to hurt the other party, cos they'll definitely end up hurting more. If there is a third party, I'd say - what a jerk! You don't deserve my love! Not sour grapes, but seriously, if you can fall for someone else even when you're already in a relationship, that tells me how much you love me. Follow your heart or brain? Both...no point thinking without your heart, and feeling without your brain. Takes both to work things out! There's my two cents worth
Do you think it is wrong to fall out of love in a relationship? Of course not, why waste everyone's time? Especially if there is a third party? Especially if there's a third party, let your partner get over a bad relationship instead of torturing everyone involved. Not to mention it cheapens EVERYTHING. Do you think it is best to end the relationship if you fall for someone else? Of course. Shall we follow our heart in love or follow our brains? Brains, that's why one breaks up the old relationship when starting a new one. It's a stupid and insensitive decision to waste EVERYONE's time.
it's natural to lose feelings after dating for a long time, so if that's the case, then end it. DO NOT wait til you find someone else, that's wrong.
Do you lose feelings? Or has your relationship become more of a routine thing? Cos the longer the relationship, the more you tend to take things for granted. ANd it's a pity to think that you've lost feelings when it's actually not so
