breaking up through sms...ok or not ok?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by philostrate, May 6, 2007.

  1. dhunter

    dhunter Well-Known Member

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    through sms is weak... tell them face to face...
     
  2. roarixer

    roarixer Well-Known Member

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    that is pretty weak...the person will question your sexuality
     
  3. Shini_D

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    OMG! That is SOOO cruel! How can you break up over a sms...
    that doesn't show that it's personal and a sms is so casual, it makes a person feel really unimportant you know!
     
  4. kakenx

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    what can I say.. LOL! Break up thru sms when ur about to die haha! not when ur walking and talking lol! Gotta face these matters with courage! or is there something ur scared of? is this person a psycho!? JK lol! but sms = no no when breaking up.
     
  5. cl81118

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    Seriously - yeah, it's bad to break up via sms

    In a lighter note - yeah, it can be comical...
     
  6. dreyvii

    dreyvii Well-Known Member

    Hmmm...my first and only r/ship and the guy did it to me via sms. It was bad...and no where near comical...really!! Didn't even give me a chance to talk things out and find out where and what went wrong. I felt like it was a piece of unfinished business, and now, 4 years later, I still feel so
     
  7. ckthepilot

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    lol that made me laugh :p
    I hear some people nowadays break up through myspace messaging :eek:
     
  8. dreyvii

    dreyvii Well-Known Member

    Oh no...please don't. It's still best to face the music and talk it out face to face. Get everything out in the open and part under good terms as far as possible. I feel you owe it to the opposite party to be honest if you're gonna walk out.
     
  9. bell3442

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    those who break up through sms are in my opinion either too chicken to tell someone the truth or one of those people that are soft hearted. breaking up through sms are not ok...but then we cant do anything about it....
     
  10. Shini_D

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    THROUGH MYSPACE?!
    are you joking me?!
    If they do that, that is justw eaker than sms and just even more disrespectful. jesus...
     
  11. gawain187

    gawain187 Well-Known Member

    I don't think its ok. Its better to tell them straight when you see them face to face more respectful.
     
  12. green8

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    i agree, sms, myspace, msn, whatever, is not cool for important things. if you're going to hurt someone's feelings, do it nicely.
     
  13. kakenx

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    LMAO! haha! that's a new one for me lol!
     
  14. danchua

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    In Malaysia, you can sent a divorce notice using sms...........can't believe it myself
     
  15. dreyvii

    dreyvii Well-Known Member

    Nah...I think that was taken off the books. Heck, that made Malaysia the laughing stock man...lol
     
  16. brown_bear

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    personally i think that's disgraceful.....are you seriously that busy -angry
     
  17. volkly

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    Breaking thru sms is so common nowadays that I feel its okay. I remember I was chatting with a friend at starbucks one night and he got a SMS, we were happily talking about something and once he got the sms, he tried calling his GF back but she even had his number blocked. Sad to say, its not the only friend i have who got the breakup message thru sms.
     
  18. depends on how screwed up the relationship already is... i broke up with my ex via email... saved me 25c... just got too fed up
     
  19. waikitfire

    waikitfire Well-Known Member

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    DAWN r so mean!!!!!!!!!!!! pity the guy wei.
    i break up b4 on my bed >.<
    is wanan divorce just send a official lawyer latter no need sms :p
     
  20. well... the more mean u r the easier for him to let go -whistle... n i wasn't married... so no need for any divorce paper... saves a lot of $$