Lolz....fair enough, I watched this show called Beethoven (its about a dog and a family). It was really funny when the girl distracted the dad by asking him the baby story...hilarious...-lol
Haha...chicken and egg talk? I think I'll just go full speed ahead and explain what you can do with the human anatomy, and use the proper terms. Better to do that than to have my kids experiment themselves
Asian parents are quite shy and conservative. I remember asking my mom about girls' period when I was 9 or 10 and she lied to me saying there's no such thing. lol
i get on pretty well with my parents, although sometimes we have arguments. i thnk i'm going to treat my children like my friends as well as daughter/son...
haha. i remember this tv show/movie (i don't remember exactly what) where there was a girl who only had one parent who was the dad. when she got her period, he gave her a sock to use as a pad. -what?
Lolz...omg, that poor girl wonder how it worked for her...Some cotton could have been better hahaha....But, honestly I tot he would know after having a wife and getting a child.....-sweat
^haha. guys are just like that; edgy when it comes to "girly stuff" which i don't think should be a problem anymore because it's not like anyone laughs when they see a guy buying pads or do they? -huh hmm. haha.
I hope they don...it takes a lot of courage for a guy to do it and tat courage should be appreciated. Well, some guys from my school used to stare and laugh when girls got period stains on their skirt. They don even have the decency to tell them and just laugh and let the poor girls walk around not knowing.....-ohmy There are only a few decents one tat tells u quietly....But, some guys are just mean and oblivious......-mellow
so true...and i hate that...i just wanna live my life the way i want it... my relationship to my parents is ok...they're not like my friends...but i still tell them what generally is going on with my life... and i really hope i can be like a friend to my future kids...if i'm gonna have some...
Am I too late? I wanted to give my two bits of experience. My bond with my mum is close. (My dad passed away 8 years ago) It didn't happen overnight. Pinkapples is right. If you want a closer relationship with your parents, make the effort. They don't read mind and they really don't know how to go about it. I believe I am a great mum. My son loves me to bits and we talk constantly...but then again he is only two...hee hee
my mum was born in the 1948.. well i can say here she isnt a much open minded person which she like to restrict me from my freedom and my career... SIGH!! arghhhhhh im 23 this year... well after bday shud be 24 oledy.. hmmmmmmmm the way she see things... more to "dont take the risk" =_=" i take risk.. i just dont like the feeling of regret... how i will treat my children in future? well, talk to them like u r the same age with them put ur feet in their shoes... start comfortable conversation instead of ordering them to do something... must remember PARENTS DONT OWN THE LIFE OF THEIR CHILDREN. Guide them! Not commanding them
my parents, ever since moving to australia they have adapted very well to the western lifestyle and tend to be more layed back then most of my reletives over back in china and hong kong. but we do have a really good bond i do tend to tell them almost EVERYTHING thats happening in my life. what we have to remember is that they DO know more then us. as many of my older friends have told me "you might be pissed off and angry or disagree with them now, but once you mature more you will think back and realise that what your parents advised was right and you were thnking very stupidly"
all parents r like that.....not just asian parents.......but the only difference is that asians has more pride than those blacks, whites, brown, purple, gray, wateva. Maybe this came from back in the days.
my parents can be pretty strict, bt i gues its for the better n dnt want us 2 go down the bad road n hang out wit dodgy ppls...they're parenting skills can be slightly traditional, bt i think they're doin their best n as a son, i gotta do more 2 help them, esp now they are turnin 2 their middle ages...><"
ye i agree and besides its obviously working cos like chinese ppl tend to be more civilised than say other races and more obedient.
yea - we tend 2 be a bit more proud 2 have the chinese in us...bt i can say - asian parents tend 2 chat sh1t bout ppls way 2 mch - over the line..n its like - when it gets 2 fights - they start dissin like crazy - esp like yestday...had some of me parents friends over - n she got into a crazy argument with the lady next door - n the lady next door began gettin very aggressive n sayin pretty unpleasant things like "dill ne gor lo mo..." n stuff ... pretty disturbing.....
wat ur neighbours are chinese? thats amazing. ye i completely agree with u there about chatting sh1t about ppl way too much.
