Who controls the finances in your family?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by gumball, Jun 7, 2007.

  1. gumball

    gumball Member

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    For me, it's both parents. My dad has full access to the checkbook (s) and accounts, but as far as the actual check writing, and the mailing of bills, that will fall to my mom. They're both a part of major decisions concerning the finances. I think in the world of managing marital finances, each spouse should know their place and then things should work pretty smooth.

    So who controls the finances in your family? And how would you feel about letting your spouse handle your finances if you happen to make more money than he/she?
     
  2. gawain187

    gawain187 Well-Known Member

    In my family my mother controls the finance.
     
  3. brown_bear

    brown_bear ☆‧° ☆﹒﹒‧ ☆ ﹒﹒‧☆‧° ☆

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    it used to be my daddy...when he was at work and my mum stayed at home looking after us like a 'siew lui yun' kekeke......but then as we got older....my mum took over and she now handles the finances :D
     
  4. Veincentury

    Veincentury Well-Known Member

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    My mother for the family and me for myself.
     
  5. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    Gotta love me mommy who handles all the headaches. :)
     
  6. Taxloss

    Taxloss Stripper Vicar

    Both my parents do, although usually it's my dad who pays the bigger expenses like the rent and stuff, but my mom has a say in it too ofcourse. They both have veto right. Even I have veto right in some cases haha! And I control my own finances ofcourse.
     
  7. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    i control my own finances =)
     
  8. Thisdamngood

    Thisdamngood Well-Known Member

    ^is that why you are broke?
     
  9. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    ya yo...hook me up with a job in chicago
     
  10. Thisdamngood

    Thisdamngood Well-Known Member

    come down to Chicago, I'll show you a good time.
     
  11. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    i got ma girl to show me a good time in chi town......give me some money man lol
     
  12. Thisdamngood

    Thisdamngood Well-Known Member

    Don't even bring your girl here, she would leave you for me.
     
  13. chickenutbread

    chickenutbread Well-Known Member

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    for some reason my dad always has cash on him but my mom is armed with a checkbook. hahaha. so both i guess.
     
  14. howieEVO

    howieEVO Member

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    Any man that makes more money than his wife but lets her take the dominant position in handling their financial matters needs to get his head checked.
     
  15. fidelis7119

    fidelis7119 Well-Known Member

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    my mama....:)
     
  16. laziboi

    laziboi Well-Known Member

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    my mum cause my dad always gambles lol.
     
  17. keongz

    keongz New Member

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    i would say is my dad
     
  18. reno

    reno Well-Known Member

    im trying to take over :p
    not exactly working, cos i just wanna make more money with the minimal money i haf
    and that means extra high risks, and im unwilling to do it lol
    ><
     
  19. cheungpwnz

    cheungpwnz Well-Known Member

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    Both but mainly my dad for more important things.