@ points 6 and 7... sometimes people are busy...during exam times or before a major test...my gf and i hardly speak to each other cuz we needa study..well she does... i try not to study... if i paid attention during the semester then i should know the answers lol... @ point 9 this isnt necessarily true either... i've always slept with my back to my gf and her back to me...cuz we like having our own space while we sleep.. its much more comfortable that way lol..but we do a lot of cuddling wen we're awake lol... oh by the way...my gf and i have been dating 5 almost 6 years and we're still going strong =) and i still let her know how much i love her wenever i get the chance.. -shock !! lol work out...vent out all ur frustration and get fit at the same time =) or go chill with the boys knock a few back...but keep in mind... alcohol is a depressant
Even if you are busy studying, you should return ur gf's call/sms if she did call/sms you in that same day. Doesn't take much of ur time to do that. It's just me I guess. I was referring to when you first lay down on the bed. It's just weird that you both sleep facing against each other like strangers What I usually do is lay on my back or face my partner.
lol im not saying that we forbid each other to call the whole day... im just sayin that we dont talk as much during these sorta times...i dont expect her to carry around her cell and i never carry around my cell wen wen im trying to get some hard studying down...but thats cuz i get a lotta calls...from my workplace tryin to get me to fill in for someone or come in for a few hours cuz their pushed back with paperwork / or from friends who just finished their exams as my school holds their exams about a week later than most other schools... lol with my gf we never just lay on the bed and fall asleep...it gets a bit much at times when i had a long day/night and i just wanna sleep...but we usually talk for an hour before she sleeps...and if i sleep before her...she does everything in her power to wake me up...making the odd whistling or sound effect noises or tickling (im very sensitive and hate being tickled) lol... but it all worksout in the end... lol
1.)when your partner and you have nothing to say on the phone. 2.)you barely see eachother and are usually doing your own thing. 3.)your partner and or you both talk to other people more than to eachother online. 4.)when your friends ask you about how you and your partner are doing, you don't have much to say.
well as for 1 i think some ppl run out of things to say it's not that they don't want to talk its just hard sometimes.lol i still have probs finding things to say all the time. don't mean i'm not crazy about the girl tho.lol
u know ur having problems when u have aruguments more frequently, spend less time with each other ( not like one hour less a day but more like u only see each other one hour a week) your partner acts differently towards you tahn before your partner acts secretive about the ppl she is hanging out with.. and your partner iis being distant towards you
i had a girl to do that once,i cussed her out and told her never to come around me again. but she did anyway.lol but icouldn't believe her i just broke up with another girl and she wanted to get back with me. and i told her how the other girl used me,and then we had sex after she ask me to give her money.lol for us sleeping togather every week,i don't think that hole betwen a woman's legs is worth anything IMO. i'll use my damn hand if a woman don't want to be with me because she wants me.lol some women are crazy
When she starts to point out your weaknesses and step on them..when she starts to blame you over nonsense.
if ur partner start to ignore you.... keep going away from you.........it's kind like the signs, they will away from you.......
I guess when both of you argue a lot and he doesn't take the effort to make time to see you or check up if you're ok.
when ur partner and u do not have much common topic to talk any longer and both of u start to argue for a small matter...... i think to be in relationship, u need to be quite straightforward, sometimes... no point in trying to avoid the reality that ur relationship is not that good any longer..... the most important is to accept the fate... to get over the break ups, meet more friends and enjoy ur life as a single.... by meeting more people, u will know that everyone's life experience is actually very different n very interesting and from that, u will know that break up is actually a small matter in ur life.. maybe just another life experience
