Hey everyone..I was wondering if you both guys and girls like to pursue or be pursued. Nowadays, I see that a lot of the girls are doing the pursuing instead and I've been told that I have to do that too. If not, I would lose out for being too laid back.-unsure What do you guys think??
Lol.....fair enough but i don understand why girls pursue though they like to be pursued. The girls i know, instead of the guys coming to them they go to the guys -_-2
lol pinkapples...im one of your friends and I haven't persued anyone yet....those must be other people that I don't know
not everyone is the same...i personally dont chase boys...but sometimes its kinda hard if u like someone and i really have to push myself not to call the guy or whatever... anyway...if a guy is really into u...he will chase u
-rockon I totally believe in that too hahaha if a guy likes you enough he would be the one that is dying to get to ya not the other way. Sigh...but nowadays guys are just so laid back they wait for the girls to make the first move...
i know what ur saying...but as long as we are laid back they will do the work eventually...and i think lots of guys like the chase...so why spoil the fun for them
I would rather be pursued. Pursuing a person is risky--you don't know for sure what his/her feelings for you are. I used to get so embarrassed whenever a crush was nearby-sweat
Yeah its always dangerous to invest too much in something that ur unsure of. I know some guys that enter a relationship just because they dunno how to say no..Thats just sad!!!! -sweat
I know this girl that always teach her friends how to play hard to get but when it comes to herself...she does the different thing, I guess she wants the guys to herself -unsure hahahaha
wuhahaha...smart tactic... Anyway...i kind of understand that some girls take initiative...its bloody annoying to wait for his phone call sometimes...
i would prefer being pursued..like peachy had said,you can't know what is the other person's feelings..there also exist some boys who are shy,so they will not do anything even if they wanted.. it's just a cycle because if we don't have pursuers,then noon would be pursued...lol
Lol.....if i am not mistaken you must be a guy but do correct me if i am wrong -_-2 . I think its easier for guys sometimes..They've got nothing to lose, one goes another comes I guess..No offense
^ True, your statement do apply to a lot of guys. However, that philo doesnt cut out for me and yes, im a guy.
hmmm... i've never thought abt pursuing... hmmmm... i wonder if i'm capable... may b i'll give that a go one day...
well if ur being chased by sum1 u don't fancy then its a problem.... tho i guess it just depends, as long as feelings are there, wateva happens happens =)
It doesn't quite matter as long as the feeling is mutual... Few things are worst than being pursued by someone you don't like... -whistle
