Guys: What Qs Do You Have for the Girls?

Question:
Song Hye Kye chooses work over love, http://www.dramasian.com/forum/showthread.php?t=18168
What is your choice?

 

she is just saying this right now but i don't think her decision will be the same if she was really in love

 

LOL, should I say "guys, observe and learn from MAV"? -tongue2

Work, because love isn't going to help me earn my keep. And water is not enough to fill the stomach EVEN when love is there... >.<

 

-blush

Love can result in marriage and double earning power

 

lol.. not if the love comes with a spring of gold.. like some guy with a million dollar income a year.. i will definitely choose love.. haha.. jking

i choose neither actually.. cos they haven't crossed paths yet.. cos i haven't started work so i wun know yet.. but i will probably choose anything tat will be more meaningful to me at the pt of life i were to make e decision..

 

Well, love can be more stressful and less reliable... so won't count on that... -whistle

 

... get the feeling that you don't have much fate in marriage ...-unsure

 

That's true... In fact I don't... I can't even trust MYSELF to love a person til the end, how can I expect the other person to love me til the end?

And call me old fashioned, if I EVER get married, I won't take divorce as an option (unless it got abusive or something drastic...) so, may as well not having it in the first place.

 

are you sure your decision would still remain the same if it strongly loves him??

 

Hmmmm, yes. Because I can't say for certain that I will still love him as much at the end of the day, but work puts food on my table = undying love from me.

 

I think Mav means faith..

hiake: bad experience in a past relationship?

Q: When are girls usually ready for the first kiss? How can the guy tell when the girl is either ready/expecting the first kiss?

 

Hmmm, not really. I just don't trust myself, or any other person that far... -unsure

*pulls out chick literature* *copy and paste*

When the girl leans towards the guy and close her eyes (not sleeping or drunk) LOL

-tongue2

 

But it could be that she is enjoying the music. Some people close their eyes when listen to music ... and if you try your stuff ... I get the feeling that you will receive some slapping

 

ah crap..

 

Yeah yeah, close your eyes and enjoy the music... but then where does the "lean towards the guy" fit into that scenario -rolleyes

LOL

 

Random movements, she is getting into a trance. So don't take advantage of her -noclue

Just wonder what ya will think if a girl rest her head on a boys lap ... <_<

 

LOL, well, I thought it's a 1-on-1 thing... but if it's a discotheque... won't knows, maybe she'll enjoy it -devil

Or you get slapped and stabbed by her gangster boyfriend -devil

 

Yeah. Wrong time, wrong place, messing with tha wrong girl -devil

 

The exactly opposition of "tin see, dei lei, yan wo" (good timing, perfect location, right people) -devil

 

Yeah, Sun Tze's war strategies also applies to finding love