It depends; is he hanging around with slutty girls or not? If those girls were already befriended with him before the girlfriend came and the guy is not flirting with them it's ok methinks. Only jealous and insecure girls will get mad and if their relationship were strong she shouldn't have to worry at all. If the guy one day would cheat on her because he spend too much time with one of the other girls...well, at least you know he can't be trusted and you can move on with your life instead of wasting more time on him. Erm, I don't mind category 1 and 3* but number 2 is something I really do mind; guy will feel insecure if he knows his gf is smarter than him and this can lead to arguments between the couple because the guy will always think the girl is looking down at him if she gives him advice on something or so. (and girls tend to give others advice or at least air their own opinions, even if it wasn't meant as a critic) * that is supposed the guy will fit in the other 56 categories he has to fullfill in my ideal list. -devil
hmm actually would a girl ever like a guy that is smart but not as good looking as they would prefer but still a great guy?
Yes that might happen. I am not that choosy. I don't need a really good-looking guy, as long as he's pleasant-looking to me
This might belong in the fashion side, but meh. The way one dress' does make one look better, but when girls see a guy who isn't dressed up, do they image what the guy would look like if he did dress up? What are the chances of a guy who has no fashion sense getting a girls number if he just walks up to her to hit on her? (Factor in he's shy and it's probably pretty noticeable that he's nervous from his speech and body language)
Shy guys are cute and I will reward him for his brave attempt to approach me and make sure he'll feel at ease during the conversation. That is as long he stays himself and not acting like he's a player while he's clearly not one by his clumsiness/nervousness.
Hmmmm, because she's nervous about the first date? Because she felt bad about her two friends who got to spend the V-day alone? Something like that... Depends on how "hang out" the guy gets with the other girls... Guys tend to be very forgiving when they consider "hanging out with girls" --> If the two get touchy, it is NOT call "hanging out"... -nono I am shallow and no, I don't think I would fall in love with a person who is inferior to me in most aspects (and no, being of the male species is not a superior trait) rationally... However, I also tend to think "love is blind" so who knows? I wouldn't mind his looks if he's intelligent, however, it's always an added bonus. It may not matter how he dresses, but his mannerism can easily turn a girl off. So I wouldn't say I would judge a person by his manner of dress, but I DEFINITELY will judge him by his mannerisms (speech and body language etc.) To me, first impressions determines whether the guy even QUALIFIES to be someone I would hang out with. If they strike a terrible first impression to me, chances are I am unlikely to suddenly become his friend or whatnot because he did a million nice things afterwards. Operative word being "UNLIKELY" here as it HAD happened, just not very frequently...
Match her hyperness and energy stroke for stroke??? It is unlikely that a girl who is active and energetic is going to like someone who is more of the indoor-sy type...
No, I don't think so.. as long as the bf is not behaving inappropriately... for eg. flirting. But then again, it's always good to be a gentleman and take note of your gf's reactions. If you sense she's being uncomfortable, you should stop ur hanging out and go to her side Unlikely... but possible. If there's any other categories that the guy might have some attraction to the girl. Bring her to Starbucks or Coffee Bean
I don't know anyone who LIKES to be stalked... so can't say why some MIGHT like to be stalked... I think it's just creepy. But that's me. Maybe you should ask someone who is currently being stalked and enjoys it? -rolleyes Hmmm, see above, since I don't know anyone who LIKES to be stalked (more than likely, they will be freaked out about have a creepy stalker) so don't know. Not here? -whistle Depends, meeting someone online can vary greatly in scope: from dating services (and meet up right away) to really meeting a new friend and NOT meeting up until, say, 5 years later? I have done the latter, but my sense of paranoia forbids me from doing the former so far... -unsure
oo, lets say someguy likes a girl, and the guy does not know how to confess it to her. Any ideas on how he can do it that the girl will like it too?
if you know someone's birthday, would you get them something and pretend it is for something else?[/QUOTE] someone that you are interested in?if yes,no..the person wouldn't believe it and will asked you millions of questions that i'm sure you would not be able to answer..
