i don't know if anyone else has already pointed this out but... i think the most important point is that she believes you will give her the greatest happiness out of everyone that she's met. it always goes down to that point doesn't it? stability in life and financially of course will definitely help in a relationship but it doesn't define what a relationship is supposed to be. i think you should give her a chance, esp if you both like each other. in the end, all things can be compromised if you're both serious about each other. hope that helps. =)
It's true that most girls these days go for the person who can guarantee a secure future. But there are aspects that we go for other than financial support and things like that. If I were the girl you're talking about, I probably would have to really like you to go for you if I know what situation you're in. She probably really trusts you and believes that you will succeed in the future, and so will your relationship. And I think that if you two work hard on your relationship, it'll be much stronger than if she just went for the other guys for a secure future.
sometimes with the right ppl, their feelings is all it takes to be with someone.. the girl wants to be with you and support your decision in what you want to do with your life.. you should appreciate and probably not ask so many questions lol.. that means if you move, she's probably willing to move with you.. just enjoy the ride
lol... u have answered ur own problems starting from this point actually... n well.. here are other ppl who have actually "rephrased" ur ans.. n i would agree to lee lee... u'll never know if u dont try.. n if it doesnt work out?? at least u know u wont regret it.. cos u;ve tried hmmm.. does that mean he might need a shrink? -clapclap true true... hmm but i wouldnt kinda agree with enjoyin the ride thou... that sounds like... u know u r gonna break up anyway.. so wot the heck.. might as well just ride her...>.< sounds so wrong ehhehe but yeah i totally agree... u r just questionin urself too much if she understands ur circumstances... n after a long chat.. n she knows where u both might be heading.. ie u flying here n there.. n she;s willing to accept it... so wot the heck? n important factor.. U LIKE HER!!
aiyo!! did not mean it to sound like is bad lor.. the meaning is not going to break up anyway.. it means not to think too much and enjoy the time RIGHT NOW.. just plan little bit ahead of time, not the next 10 yrs of the relationship.. many times, thinking too much will cause stress and then make ppl uncomfortable around each other.. but like i said, is only for the right 2 ppl where they just need their feelings.. not everyone can do this.. if both parties have good jobs and not have to worry about money, no kids<yet>, responsible and independent, then they should be fine if one person need to move for a job
