^ nah i wasnt including fornication. i dont believe in dating, i believe in finding your wife when the time is right and your able to support your family. the girl i date will be the girl i want to marry, no random dates. don't get me wrong i have alot of female friends and though many of them are beautiful, they are not what i want for a wife, so they are friends. i have a good sermon on this subject, if you wana hear it then let me know.
But question is, how are you supposed to know she's the right one if you don't date? And there's no guarantee that the one you date will be the right girl. No thanks, not interested in sermons.. I am not a christian -sweat
you just need to find a like minded person, for me ill be finding a 'Christian only' wife, who has the same aspirations as me concerning life and more importantly God.
LOL, so to you all that matters is God God and God and nothing else? She can still be a devoted Christian and NOT be compatible with you dude. Compatibility isn't only about religion. There are so many other aspects in life. Unless you are like a priest? Only thinkin of God and nothing else? No hobbies, no opinions on other matters except religion and no social life?
^You got no other aspects in life? No hobbies, no social life, no opinions on other matters?? -shock Wow... speechless.
^Still, if you claim to have a life, the girl may still not be compatible with you even if she's a devoted Christian. Or else you could have easily done a mail bride order. Devoted christian - check Others - doesn't matter.
you got to date.lol don't mean you have to sleep with them,but dating isn't wrong or bad. you don't want to marry a hoe,and then have to find a new woman,and not every woman or man that saids they believe in God does. i was with a hoe once that would talk about God all the time but she was sleeping with everybody.lol God loves all and so did she.lol
That's the thing, if you never give a piece of yourself to anyone before, how do you know how far you can go with the "giving"? And I am not talking about it in a sexual context. Such as, yeah, we all know that you should pay a lot of attention to your partner, wife, whatever you like to call it, but then there are those who find husband, partner got too clingy. Dating is like practice, so that you won't screw up when the right person comes by and miss your one and only. So you compare your notes on God with her and nothing else? What if she doesn't know how to cook, don't like YOUR church and insist on going to her own (Christian is one thing, doesn't mean that she will HAVE the love the particular church you go to even if the two of you are compatible in EVERY POSSIBLE WAY) What if she decided to go to African and carry charity work in the name of God? Will you follow her because it's in the name of God? So the shared passion for God is the ONLY requirement you have for your bride-to-be. What if SHE has other requirements? A marriage, or even a relationship, isn't about ONE person you know... -unsure
Aren't you a little carried away by the whole religious issue? Being a Christian does not mean that she will have the same goals/visions in serving God like you do. It'll be difficult to communicate even if you were both Christians, but heading off in different directions....for eg: if you're working towards development of the church and she was more dedicated to evangelism (just an example) It's life we're talking about...you still need to eat, sleep, talk and enjoy yourself...and to find the right person to do it, does not boil down to God as the only criteria
Being young and stuck in one relationship would be horrible for me. I am a person who gets bored easily and I cannot be committed. I wouldn't want someone to claim me as their girlfriend right now anyways as I am not in a position in my life where I want to settle down at all. I would not consider myself a party girl or a 'bachelorette' but I just like to do new things and meet new people and having a boyfriend would cause problems unless he is fine with my lifestyle.
