you don't HAVE to be any of those number 1-4.. if you think women only look for those kind of men, you're pretty far from the truth lor.. point is to have more confidence in yourself.. i'm not that good looking either, but as you get older and have more confidence, you'll find it easy to make convos with women and date.. since you are so caught up with your weight and how you look, i'm going to assume your dating "game" isn't have much experience=/
I do talk to a lot of girls, but however they turned into girlfriends. I took girls out and the girls that seemed to be interested in me were using me for money. The girls I've liked became friends, and that was it. When I was fat and now, I get way different treatment from girls.
by the way, here's the thread I made for the weight loss, before and after. http://www.dramasian.com/forum/showthread.php?p=333339#post333339
Hot girls just want rich, handsome, tall, intelligent, good personality, well-mannered, good family background guys. Sadly, I'm short, fat, 4 eyes, not rich, not smart, bad personality, and rude. That's why single at the moment. -down
not to be rude la.. but that means you aren't doing something right.. every girl is "chased" differently.. can't use the same method all the time.. there are lots of guys out there who are fugly, ghetto and unintelligent and somehow they can get these gorgeous girls.. trust me la, is not about how you look.. if you stop and give up on every girl you interest in just because you think that they think you are not good looking enough, you're not going to get any action and if so many girls use you for money, meet some different ppl la
you are right about that, I just need to get in the game. And I know what you are talking about, I guess I got tired of the girls over here that are all ghetto~ish and gold~diggish, that it made me felt like either I'm being played or I'm in a bad area. But seriously, there's not many good girls where I am.... I might consider moving to texas or cali. If possible, maybe new york.
don't come here to california, especially los angeles!! sososososo much worse lor.. i lived in ny and sf, los angeles is the worst lol
really? I've got a lotta friends in cali and they said it's awesome there. they want me to go there next month lol
which part of california?? there's more chinese/asian in la, but the ppl here are too superficial.. generally speaking, so i don't mean everybody.. in my experience, after i meet a lot of them<and i know a LOT of ppl>, only a small fraction are ok ppl i would hang out with again.. but i'm assuming your friends mean there's lots of stuff to do here.. i guess so, if you've never been here.. but to me is very boring=/
yea, if I go I probably will just be there for a week. Texas probably about a week or so. I lived in ny before... great place for food and such. Worst air ever and chinatowns were as dirty as it can be. parking cost up the roof and the rent is up the roof too. so I might not consider to move back there.
that's true... but then again it's very hard to have sex with someont that ur not physically attracted to...
well... u can't close ur eyes the whole time... n besides... u can feel the body...~~ n when ur partner ask u "y do u close ur eyes all the time?? don't u wanna look at me??" then wot r u gonna say?? yeah... or cut out Daniel Wu's face from a mag n stick it on to guy's face -clapclap
haahahahahaha never hear of this one until now.. usually i hear of brown bag first lol well of course not close eyes ALL the time.. but also don't have to stay in one position whole time either.. but imo, i f you truly love someone, it shouldn't matter
