Loving someone that's alot older?

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what do u mean by " a lot older" ? 5years? 7 years? 10 years?
for me max ~ 2-3 years difference...

 

define ur defination of old cuz every1 is different

 

depends how old someone is too.. if you're 15 and go out with somebody is 20, that's a bit too old.. but if you're 40 and go out with someone 45, that's different

 

Also depends whether the girl or the guy is a lot older...ladies in general mature faster and guys age more gracefully, so having the lady much much older is a bit of a disadvantage, IMO

 

^ lol i'd agree with that, plus depending on that age thing again, try to stay away from women (if your a guy) 3+ yrs more than u if your less than 30... maybe it's a mental dominance thing to me...

 

Well... older women, I try to avoid... but not more than 6 years younger.

 

This taiwanese girl rejected me because she was a yr older than me.

Age generally isn't a problem for me, but it's a problem for many girls in my area.

 

bleh age is just a number if you like / love them who teh hell cares

 

"Age is an issue of mind over matter... If you don't mind, it don't matter!"

It depends on the maturity in my opinion. 3 years older is what I would consider, but like nyckeion said, if I like/love them, who care.

 

omg is this one of those thread where he makes a thread with a question without givin and opinion/answer and never comes bak to the thread again

 

That taiwanese girl I was chasing said the same thing. Too bad it wasn't the truth.

 

that's so sad..

 

Maybe she rejected you because of some other 'hidden' reasons, but used the age thing as an excuse? -evil She might not feel so nice to tell you the 'real' reason. lol

 

Eg. too short + 4 eyes -dead

 

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Wheres your opinion? And be more specific with your question.

 

I don't think a one year makes that much a difference. I was talking about probably 5 years and above. But some people are really sensitive about the age thingy, so I guess the girl is just one of them.

 

yup duno what ur limit.. for my case, my bf is is about 6 year older than me.. i can accept it .. but if a man is 10 years older than me.. then i might no accept ..