Everything was going great for me, I was working out... getting in shape, hanging out with friends. No trouble or problems, everything was going great...till... friend after friend's breaking up with their gf/wife/fiance and that's all they talk about whenever we all hangout. Now tonight it made me feel bad and now I can not get that lonely feeling out of me. Sucks big time. I probably regret posting this thread up tomorrow morning, showing how desperate and pathetic I am. I wanted to be tough, strong and now I'm getting depressed over some lonely feeling shit. *sighs* ._. I hope I can get enough motivation to workout tomorrow.
Been through that so I know what you mean. It takes time, eventually you won't think much about it or hell even realize how lucky you are to be single! haha
2 words: Enjoy life. I am shorter than you, fatter than you, less intelligent than you, and also single at the moment. But I am always happy. No one absolutely needs another person's company to survive. No girls doesn't mean you will die.
been single for 7 years now. most of the times I don't really care, but when friends and family pressure me. It gets me sometimes. -_-
aiya.. your friends' stuff just happens la.. that's life.. stuff happens i think maybe you should learn the difference between "lonely" and being "alone".. you have friends, so you're not lonely.. lonely ppl choose to be lonely for some reason or other.. so basically, whenever you are ready to be with someone else, that means you are feel OK with being alone.. everybody needs time to have their own space to be by themselves.. with the stuff you say, i don't think you are ready to be with someone else.. coz.. if you can not keep yourself happy to keep one person<yourself> happy, how can you make another person happy?? just remember your life is your life la.. you shouldn't depend on other ppl to make yourself happy
you are right, I will remind myself that everyday. Especially when I workout, I need motivation in my everyday life. I can't give up now, not after I've tried so hard to make it happen.
been single for 16 years lol xD it needs time ... u dont think that anyone here can get a gf/bf in 5 sec....
random bf/gf u can always get it at a club but u no nuthing about them...it is not hard to get a just bf/gf but it is hard to perfect gf/bf
First of all, never think that you are ALONE. If every lonely being in this world unite, they won't be so lonely anymore If you think you are unlucky or in bad shape, there are many others who are in worse situations than you. So be thankful for that. Be happy for that. You have picked yourself up, worked out hard and made yourself look better in years. You should be proud of yourself, and not feel shitty. I understand that sometimes peer pressure can make you feel down, but like someone said, you shouldn't live your life trying to please others. You should live your life according to your own choices and your own will. If you are single and you are happy, you are much better off than those who are in a relationship, but not happy. The next time anyone asks you, just tell them you are single and loving it Or you can always tell them you haven't found 'the One'.
Tomorrow I will make a new goal for myself. I have 5 days left for my extreme training, then after that I will become an asian bodybuilder. And travel more often.
that's good!! set more goals for yourself.. it will help you feel better after you accomplish.. that's on your way to become better person.. don't worry la, you're not alone in do that.. every successful person think like that=)
Hi Madeinchina =)....hmmm...im not gonna say "i know how u feel" because...yeah im single too...but ive never felt really bad about it...ok i must admit that sometimes i do miss someone to share the good and the bad with...but overall im enjoying my life the way it is now & u should too...ive read that u did a lot to change urself...it will pay off...but just be patient... the way i see it is...u will find someone who is right for u one day...dont worry =) I dont know how old u are...but thats the thing with lots of azn parents... they always wanna push their kids to have gf/bf or get married when they come to a certain age...but if you havent found the right one...what are u suppose to do...just hit on some random girl? Just try to ignore what ur parents are saying...i know must be hard but they should understand that...its not always ur call if ur in a relationship or not. Tomorrow u will wake up and hopefully feel better... =) Good luck with whatever u want to achieve!
Hang in there bro. Nothing to feel ashamed about, because its only humans to feel those emotions. You should consider yourself lucky that you dont have those problems because i can tell you that when you break up, it sure aint a good feeling at all. Be patient and wait for True Love rather than jumping into a hasty relationship.
get a life and get alive!...i've been single in my entire life and still happy bout the fact that i'm single...being single has it's own advantages and first of all u have the freedom...been spending half of my days listening to my friend's whining about their partners and how they've shed tears because of sour relationships...frankly for me i'll just leave it as it is...if the time comes you'll be able to find a great partner and take your time...
Things come when you least expect it, so if you constantly keep thinking about it.. it won't come to you. Also don't look depressed and lonely..... Just stay positive and smile! Girls like it more that way.. at least i think so .. any girls here agree??
