For guys and gals alike, would you confess if you like someone, and if so, how would you do it? Tell us your story. -innocent As for me, I have never had to 'confess' before, as the guy I like usually made the first move.-^_^ But if I like a guy, I would drop hints for him, never a direct confession. My ego's too big for that -whistle
hmm... well when i started to like my bf..i dropped him hints..n we were becoming close friends..so close that pple thought we were going out.. one day..he must of asked me who do i like? I replied bk: what would you say if i liked you? In my mind this was my confession, if i got rejected then..i could have passed it off as a joke but i'd feel kinda depressed..if he accepted it then..we would take it from there... His answer: well he did accept it..n told me he like me too.. we were still close friends n still would hang out..but we didnt go out til a couple weeks later after our confessions..n now we're still together..going strong..=)
@ BR Hmm, thats a very short story you have! -nono @ PG: Congrats and wish you guys to continue strong on your relationship.
Nice one Phoenixgirl, and I am glad for you too -hug <_< And where's yours? -noclue Don't have a story, coz I don't confess.
Hard to say. I think it depends on the type of girl I am dealing with. There's one time where I indirectly forced a girl to confess liking me first and I just picked it on from there. Another time I had to do it in person at a quite place. Overall, I think I would choose to confess in person since I can get a direct answer from the girl.
don't think i really make the first move about actually talking about feelings.. they usually talk about it first and tell me.. sometimes imo, is hard to tell with me if a girl try to guess if i'm interested in them or not.. coz i usually call ppl to go out.. like go eat, go watch film, hang out whatever
Unless there's someone who looks like Aaron Kwok and fits at least 95% of my ideal list I would never ever confess first. At best I'll drop hints.
I've tried telling her on the phone... didn't work out that well I've tried another two in person... before reaching the point of no return, I was nervous as hell, but afterwards it was much better than the on the phone, even though one of them was the same answer. Maybe should go back to dropping hints
Ya, I prefer that than let my heart get broken by an ass. -mellow And where's your vote Windy? -tongue2
I actually did this for my ex. We went to this club and the DJ was doing song requests so I planned ahead and got my request in. The song I chose: "Will You Be Mine" by Ruff Endz. Read the chorus: Will you be mine on this day Will you be my sunshine in may Will you be the stars and my nights Will you be the joy, the joy in my life Will you be my everything Will you be the happy every song i sing Will you be the love i cant deny Will you be the love, the love of all time Will you be mine
i've chosen one of the steps above that i will most likely do...but i think i would do some of the options listed chronologically, depending on our current relationship...for eg if the person is not very close to me but i like him i guess i'll start off with smses and emails...when i get to know him better i'll shift to another options such as meeting face to face and dropping hints
well for me im just to shy to talk to the liking one i would not say to her or give hints only if i kno she likes me back i would make my moves!!
