Hello housemate... how come are u so different from when i first met u? u said u were a clean person.... =/ hate it when u leave the dishes for a few days...the way you just leave a few plates and pans... make me have to wash the pans u used when i want to use em to cook my food... the first few times i washed u stuff too..but i got tired of it so i just wash my own plates now And how u never clean the cooker after u finish... I also hate it when you leave hairs in the bathroom sink...your a guy and their short...but still... i dont think u'd like if my hair was all over the place now would u? hate it when you turn ur music up sooo loud i can even hear it while wearing headphones so i've decided not to listen to my own music because else i will become psycho while listening to 2 different kinds of music at same time... No hard feelings...u are a nice person...but some of ur habits just bug me sometimes... the beauty of having a housemate..... =/ just needed to let this out...
^Hah, this reminds me of a guy I used to have as my housemate... He didn't bother to wash up his plates, and worse, my cooking utensils (including the pan). I wasn't as nice as you... -^_^ I told my other housemate (who's the sub-landlord) to tell him to clean up, and of course he didn't like it. Another time was when my mug was missing, and guess what, he used it for his 'guest' and it was in his room! ARGH! Good thing he moved out and I moved out too, shortly after My friend had it worse, she had a guy housemate who shared the same bathroom, and sometimes in the mornings, she'll find a surprise waiting for her, in the toilet bowl. (his cum) He didn't even bother to flush!! -angry I wonder why some guys are so sloppy, even though they are sharing a place with someone else?!
Well...its his place...i rent a room in his apartment so....i dont know...i am going to say something about it when i cant take it anymore...when im really p.ssed off and feel cranky im gonna suprise him... i do give him "hints" sometimes like...Gee...when u gonna do the dishes... I am also not sure if he did his house chores or not...we sort of agreed on taking terms in cleaning the house... which means he has to clean the bathroom, vacuum and all that stuff...
^Oh, so it's HIS place huh? Hmm, then i guess you gotta haf a word with him. You can't put up with his shit all the time... and do his dishes, pick up his 'hair' after him, what are you? His maid? Have a talk with him, tell him you are not comfortable with the 'state of cleanliness' and that you'd GLADLY APPRECIATE it if he does his dishes. (does he also leave the rubbish in the house for days, waiting for you to clear it up always? That's what my housemate did, too. Hah, sometimes I fought it out with him... let the rubbish rot there for a few days haha.. but i usually gave in when I can't stand the stench. You can see maggots -sick2) And if he still doesn't give a damn, find another place and move out!
Well...he leaves the living room and the dining area clean...thats a good thing...thank god for that! and yeah...i know i have to talk to him about it..but until i have found the guts....im just gonna complain here at the rant forum =)
^Meh, what guts... Don't need to fear anything. You are paying your rent, you are not staying there for free What makes him more superior that you got to clean up after him? Even my landlady doesn't expect me to clean up anything for her. (unless sometimes she cooks, and I clean up the pot when I am the last one) Besides, he should have some senses in him to clean up if you let it known to him that you are not putting up with his crap. He's doing it now because he thinks you can be bullied
=(...im easy target ...i just leave his dishes now....but it just bugs me to see it...because i just clean up right after i finish... and yesyes like i said...i will tell him..... soon...
^are the pans you use to cook, his or urs? If they are his, i suggest you get ur own, and put it in a shelf somewhere. I think he shouldn't be using your pans, and you don't have to worry about him not cleaning the pans for you to use. That guy used to use MY pan to cook, and not clean it up. After i made a fuss about him, he stopped using my pan. Which was a good thing for me
erm...i encountered all these so called clean housemates all the time...i stayed in a hostel and had to stay with new housemates every semester but so far i had not met a truly clean person...don't think that your house will be clean although u stay with a girl...sometimes girls are equally dirty as guys...they were like princess and will NOT do any chores....I'm fussy about cleanliness and i was the one who did the mopping and cleaning all the time...it's fine if they don't help me but they loved to dirty it somemore... angiecheeks seriously u cant do much on ur own if he keeps on dirtying the place...if he doesn't clean the place it's fine also...you'll do it if you love cleanliness but at least ask him to wash his dishes after cooking or eating...that's his personal responsibility and he can't expect you to do it for him...not even your boyfriend...
well...their his...but the thing is...i dont feel like buying pans etc...i will be leaving in 3 months u know...
philo...i lived with a very very clean person before... she was cleaner than me...!! she was great...we liked each other so much cuz we were both clean...but the thing is...she lived to far away from my workplace... =(
Oh you are leaving in 3 months? Hmm... then it's up to you... If you decide to keep quiet and tough it out, I guess you can do that. Since 3 months isn't that long... and it's troublesome to find another place for such a short duration. I guess you can continue doing what you are doing now, leave his dishes unwashed, and he'll have to do it when he needs his plates And since you are using HIS pans, I guess there's nothing much you can do about it. If you want to use them, you gotta clean them up if he doesn't.
This is why I prefer living with friends or people I know who aren't sloppy and lazy. Everyone does their own thing and it's quite peaceful.
Not everyone can find a couple of friends to live with them at a foreign place at that particular time. Besides, living with friends has its con. You can easily have a row with your friend(s) and end up living in a tense atmosphere, whereas if you live with some people you don't really know, you just mind your own business.
haha damn angie.. you dont want me as ur roommate then prolly -lol im kinda lazy to -blush anywayz.. if you get angry i know for sure he will sart listening -lol just like start up pointing out his bad habbits.. and end up with saying ur a nice person etc etc.. but your bad habbits just annoy the crap out of me -lol
thats nothing. My friends friend once had a roommate in an apartment who was crazy. He would talk into his phone and yell at his mom and then he got so mad he punched the windshield and it cracked. Then one time he killed his hamster and ate it. then one day he left and didn't come back. And a couple months later he they find him back in the apartment naked on the couch asking for them to rub oil on him. They finally called the cops.
OMG, don't get me started with the housemates from hell...Dishes in sinks, loud guests staying until the wee hours at night, hair in the tub, the list goes on... But no, there are two species of human beings, slobby and not slobby, and neither is gender specific. I have had female slobs AND male slobs as housemates... >.<
