Finding someone you really like is a miracle already, but when you're far apart it complicates and make the relationship even harder. It requires you to go the extra mile to keep the relationship strong. What are your sincere advice to LDR people or did any of you have happy ending stories on LDR? -detect
talk on the phone everday and MSN everyday... i did it for 1.5 yrs and then the relationship started to fade.. game over
it's hard to maintain the same feelings for each other when we are at the different sides of the globe...unless both have faith..personally i think the possibility is low...
I agree that the possibility is low. Not many guys are like me, always loyal to my girlfriend even when she's not around. -rolleyes Unfortunately, finding an equally loyal girlfriend is difficult these days in a LDR.
Honestly, I haven't seen any long distance relationship that actually work out so far yet. I've seen/known people who do these and it ended because they're feeling started to change when they met somebody else they had interest in or they just started to grow distant from each other from being apart for so long.
Sometimes, a person may not want to end the relationship. It's just that they don't know if the other person is also being loyal or not which is a problem on trust. Once a person has doubts on their partner, the LDR is going to be over soon.
If you can make it work, it will be worth it. But that's a big IF... Some say that it's not the goal in the end that matters, it's the journey of one's path that is meaningful.
I've only met one LDR that's been somewhat strong over the years, but it was because those two were generally very busy people, one with the church and the other with work. They would keep in touch through MSN / webcam and make calls to each other Think of the things u love about a person... their laugher, their smile, their warmth, and that stupid little dimple on her cheek that always catches your eye... you don't get much of that in a long distance relationship. I could hardly call just keeping in touch a relationship if you guys can't see each other for very very long periods of time. oh yea... i'm assuming that when u said LDR there was little before that. If a close relationship goes LDR after like a year or two, it has a much much much higher chance to hold out longer.
Video Conference, send gifts, talk onthe phone all the time, visit each other sometimes. It gets tiring but so do all relationships regardless of distance, you both have to motivate each other. If your both determined knowing that each other is the right one (the only one) then it will work. Eventually ends will meet. Make plans to move together in future. The will of steel!
it's kind of hard to have a long distance relationship cause eventually, it'll end someone cheats, or you don't really understand what the person is like and you feel like you're growing apart. if you wanna have a long distance relationship, the best thing is to find a boy who you KNOW will stay loyal to you. but it's still kind of hard to build up all these feelings and trust and stuff ONLY over the internet. but i suggest that you talk to each other alot or both get a webcam or something.
even with webcam, phone, email, msn.. it's still not the same.. some girls want their guys right with them at all times.. and if u aren't there.. that spot can be easily taken by some other guy that's always around her and making feel happy/loved
long distance relation doesn't really work out. i have a friend who used to do this. he lives in SF and she lives in San Diego. they wold always talk on the phone. my friend got caught cheating on her a couple times. i guess he did this is because she always gets him in CHECK. this story ends up in a happy ending because he moved down there with her and now lives with her.
that is good. I have a friend, her cousin lives in Windsor, Ontario and her boyfriend lives in Las Vegas. The boyfriend will always buy her plane ticket and hotel every month so she can spent time with him. I think that is so sweet. He must really really love her in order to do that. Now, she is trying to get into school in the states or find a job, so she can officially be with him. Hope it works out! (Paradiso wrote this)
What do you mean by that? I'm a good loyal man! I may be a short guy, but my feelings are long. -rolleyes
