Some people really love to have kids while others just want to play with them. People usually wanted a son but always had daughters while some had problem to had kids so rather adopt one.
I would probably want children in the future but just not now lol. and i wouldn't adopt one to be honest.
im scared that my kid might be mentally retarded or physically deformed.. after watching vids of all this crazy shit like autism and reading some medical journals that showed crazy physical deformities, it kinda freaks me out about the whole procreation business. So much could go wrong... prolly wait till im like 30-35 ish to have a kid
yea having a kid that has mental or physical deformities just sucks for them and ruins their lives, but thing is planning is actually important because you can't have them too young or too old, i mean if you have them when you are like past 40 or something they would have really old parents and it feels weird for them.
There are some people past the age 40 or 50 that still have kids. Anyways not planning to have any children's yet, but not so sure about the future. I like kids and all, but not ready for them. Plus I feel like a mother already watching kids most of the time -mellow
I think... I don't want any children because they always spent a lot of money on toys, clothes, etc. Sometime they causes a lot of trouble and I have to be responsible. I rather play with them for a while but having one Definitely not as it stop me from having a romantic relationship with by lover and friends. Even if I want one my girlfriend probably scare b/c sometime giving birth can end up death so rather adopt a girl b/c their more respectful and least troublesome.
How are they more respectful and less troublesome? I would want a son, mainly because it would be easier to interact with him
i don't wanna have children coz there're too much crap n pain in this world... i don't wanna bring a child to a world i don't like... if i ever want them i'll adopt one
wow I'm sorta surprised [even though I know I probably shouldn't be] that so many pplz are saying "no" to having kids in the future....I always thought having at least one would be a good experience....though....
My mom is 52 and my dad is 71 (arranged marriage) and I'm only 16. Sometimes it is weird because all my friends parents are like 40-50. And I don't like it because I feel I should take on more responsibility, because they're kind of seniors already who shouldn't have to do anything, because their kids should be taking care of them already. I also don't like my parents being that old because of .... death -cry2-down @ the topic: I'm not really thinking about kids, but if I do, I want to have them when I'm 25-30s.
if they are that old and you are only 16 that means they should have had lots of time to make money without the expenses of a kid.. hopefully they have solid savings. if i was 70 and broke id be pretty pissed. must be pretty bad when u go out to eat or something and people ask if your dad is your grandpa though...
waahh, my mother and father is very similar age as your parents, but they are not arrange marriage.. i kind of forgot how old my parents are though -shrug-shrug
People always think my dad is my grandpa, so that gets me kind of pissed off. Both parents came from China and they married when they were 30ish-50ish respectively. Both didn't finish their educations, so I don't think they could have made a lot of money. I don't think I even have money for college saved up. We're not broke but we don't have a boatload of money saved up somewhere.
aiyah.. well ur pretty, just marry rich -batman its my plan too, imma gold digger. shouldnt be difficult cuz im a lang jai
same here.. but i was on my own for a lot of my life.. so i pay for my education and everything else i own.. : sigh : if only it can be easier -mellow-mellow
Sometime Sometime having a daughter is much easier then having a son because it's less troublesome and more intelligent somehow.
But it's good that you're so independent. I'm scared because I don't feel like I am a very independent person.
