lol, i think someone already said something about this, i'm not a girl but i'd imagine your girl wouldn't want you to be a total mess when she gets back, plus that shows her your emotionally unstable, that your very and maybe too dependant on her. sure when you see her again you can tell her like "oh i missed you everyday, though about you" etc but as others have said before me, get a life beyond a gf and as i said ealier about snail mailing her, u can do it in diary form too ^_^ or just keep a normal diary that she can read about your thoughts.. that will show her how much you missed her, and hopefully you did something worthwhile during her time away. Shows your more than a pet lol being emotional has nothing to do with feeling for others if someone is selfish. And while arguing with a girl, they'll believe everything they say is 100% fact and is right. So.... just lose the argument and come back later after she's chilled.
Well, I am sure there's a huge difference between, "I missed you, darling" and then give us an appreciative hug and "Oh my god! You are finally back! I was dying!" and hold us so tight until we almost choke... So yeah, if you miss us and still be able to survive and have a life of your own, that will make us like you more. If you say you miss us and can't live without us blablabla and looking so shabby (haven't shaved, haven't combed the hair, house looking so messy, etc) as if you can't go on with life without us... then that's a big turn-off (at least to me).
well I already though of that..and I started since the day she left..writing a diary for each day..lol..guys...I did someting worthwhile...but I'm finished...I made her a present...with my own two hands-_-!!...but now I'm done..I have watch all the movies I want to see..I have seen the serie that attract me...I have finished playing almost the games I was tired off..and now Im suitting my butt day and out...well not exactly...was thinking to wactch all harry potter movies sigh-_-!! and baby rain..is it me or is it you.....cause I dont understand...I said it was fun tor read all ur advice...and it made me think away for some min..not like I was misisng tou guys...that i really appreciate that you guys spend ur time hre and write down ...how to make me feel better or do better stuff instead sitting here day and out
oh come on. shes gone for 3 weeks and u think its bad already? my ex was gone for 4 months working in another country. and hes still gone. but i broke up with him. recently. lol. because seriously, if the relationship is strong enough, nothing will break it apart. but if its not worth it, in my case, i might as well end it right? but anyway. its been 2 months already. in the beginning, it may be hard, but no one expected u to sit there at home in front of the computer all day and do nothing. go out with yur frineds or get a job or soemthin. entertain yourself. keep yourself busy. and just use phone cards! its really not that expensive. lol.
like I said everyone has their own way to be right? not everyone is that strong as you? or the way you struggle?....Yeah I know that 4 months is a long way from each other...and you never know what might happend after 1 month already...cause feeling change rightj?...But like you are not me and I'm not you...If you get a chance how to live like me...I surely let you know...it is..and you will not like it...but..i try my best alreday to entertain myself....but nothing works..
well...for me time pass really quick when i'm working like crazy...run up and down when lot of people come in lol
Well I don't want a life like ur that like to drink all day to screw up your life...and if you really read carefully my old post you will find that I can't drink...Don't like drinking...gosh.....
dude...you should show some initiative...why would you want your parents to help you get a summer job? Yes parent connections can make the job seeking process easier with a few phones calls and what not but do you honestly want to rely on them your entire life? Ok...so mommy and daddy ain't got some connections to help you find a job....then how bout you look at the field that you want to go into find a few companies call them up and ask if they have internships or summer programs. Well of course now is a little too late to apply for them and most positions are probably filled by now. Besides summer jobs are meant to be fun and enjoyable while also being a learning experince. Hell...find a job at your local movie theater they are always hiring for the summer...as its probably their busiest season. I got my first internship with an engineering firm by applying all over the place and just got lucky with one of them and with no help from my parents. If i were in your shoes i wouldn't be mopin around the house saying i miss my gf and not do anything to better myself out of it. financial stability is one of the things women look for in a guy (or from what i've seen) and u might as well start that early
no, i didnt break up with him just because he was in another province. because i was planning to make it work. i know hes going to come back, cuz we go to the same school. but our personalities just didnt click. we argued everyday. it was painful to go on. and we might as well save the effort and just be frineds again.
trust me, maybe u wont want to live like me either. but i guess we are different. but im just saying u have it way better than me already. im not telling u to dump her .. like i did. lol. but like everyone else says, take up a hobby. or work or soemthing. cuz if yu cant even do sometihng for yourself, how are u going to keep the girl?
-lol Fabulous suggestion! I suggest video games. Otherwise it would be a sport, but then it won't really take up that much time unless you go for a long time everyday.
You are right about tgettin the sumer job but it's kinda to late for now..and getting a movie theather? jisses god...that's a hard job to get...like no one will get the job unless you get help from a school like practise there or else you have to get in the hard way...but the thing you say it righ but this is my summer vacation...I just like graduated from school let me rest please...and damn yesterday we like having a fight cause she "done a hole in her belly" gosh I wasn't upset because she done it it was more that she didn't told me earlier and just did and expect that I would be happy about it....and I didin't....sigh....but I will try for searchinga job...cause missing her is pain....I can't even image how I manage to survivie this weekends..but even If i did there was some negativt that I did after all....sigh I'm just so tired...tired of everything right now....can't keep on with my life like this..sigh-_-!!...
-ann movie theater = places where u watch movies not a movie studio (where u go to act and what nots) resting obviously ain't doin you any good since your mopin around soo much at home about your gf who is on a trip...... your still young so u still got lots to learn in the real world...hopefully some of the advice from all the peps on the forum will sick in for ya
Not only are you being too clingy, now you trying to control her life too? -shock It's her body, she can do what she likes with it. Besides it's just a belly piercing, not like she gone crazy with piercing every part of her body... Just relax, will ya. -rolleyes
