i guess is good.. i mean, i learn a lot of stuff from my friends and stuff i do everyday.. but more responsibility mean more pressure and stress even you are not the independent person, there's always ways to find out how to get by.. not everything at once, but like each thing you need help on
My mom had me when she was in her late 30's and people were still thinking that she was my grandma when i was like 12, i felt it before too.
thats true especially they are easier to educate... daughters have less problems than sons when they are children (0 ~ 11 years), especially clean their rooms, fighting with other kids etc... but this will change when they are older. parents are more worried when their daugther go out at night etc. back to topic sure i want to have children one day... but i wont go for son like all chinese parents do >_< i would be happy if my child was healthy and happy.
haha. i want to have kids, but i don't wanna get pregnant... your stomach gets HUGE and you can't wear any clothes. haha. and it's uncomfortable. and also, the actual birth process freaks me out alot. but i'll probably have kids someday...
Well, people think my mother is my sister. It's either I look really old or she looks young XD. Not a pleasant feeling when I think about it. Anyway, you're still young and you can still save money for college if you get a part-time job, summer job, etc. There's also financial aid and stuff.
Agree Becoming pregnant can be troublesome as they always vomit, can't eat and do a lot of things, and can't be with their husband.
^true XD. Especially when they wake up late at night craving for something and won't stop bothering you until you get them what they want, but depends on the individual though
Hahaha I am sure your mom will feel very flattered, but not you. I go out with my aunt and people thinks I am her daughter. I am quite uncomfortable, because my aunt is the kind that doesn't like it when people addresses her as "Aunty". She might get pissed and indirectly gets angry at me too! (there goes all my free treats) lol.
I'd go for a son just because i don't want the stress of a father-daughter relationship as she grows up >.< Fathers can only go so far when it comes to daughters, the rest is up to the mother. But with a Son... oh how glorious that'd be haha... i'd beat the shit outta him the moment he can talk back muhahaha. Trials make a man strong, and builds character.
wah, and i thought i was the only one with parents who don't really have an education. i want to have children when i grow up, but i'm afraid that i'll have finance problems. don't know if i can find a good job or have a good husband who has a good job... my mom keeps looking at my palm saying i'll find a rich husband...but idk..i don't believe in that stuff.
Wow I can't believe so many people with want a son even through facing financial problem and parent responsibility. I personally can't deal with a son as they are too violent which is such a delinquent.
^Not all sons grow up to be violent monsters.. Its mostly all in how you raise them to be and what friends they choose to surround themselves with.
Hmmm.... I won't take any chances and beside the world had change as they're more violent children everywhere and they reach puberty quick.
lol i have a brother who is 12 yrs older than me...so everytime he comes pick my out or sumthin...my friends's parents think he's my dad...LOL
Depends on the environment, society, or how well you raised them. I know some parents who don't give a damn about their kids, which lead them to do certain type of stuff for attention at a young age. Is your aunt really young or something?
that's why you must "discipline" your children. Which was why in my previous post i said i perfered boys. They're much easier to discipline. But there's no way i can discipline a daughter the way i would a son. (double standard? HELL YES) Of course love my son and be there for him 24/7. Boys are stupid at a young age for all who didn't know, the only thing they'll listen to and understand is a good beating.
