well.... didn't wanna others to get the wrong impression or anything. that's the last thing I would want now, no?
I sometimes have this problem too when talking to girls I like using english. I am fine when speaking chinese with the girls I like though. And not all girls don't care if you are hairy or not. I have hairy arms, legs, chest, and I don't have much luck. I'm sure everything would be different if I was 4 or 5 inches taller.
bro you are right about that, everyone is so freaking tall over here. I look like a midget in the mall, clubs, parties, etc. The short girls goes for taller guys, handsome guys or guys with money. I am poor, short and not a looker either. Makes it so hard for me to find someone. I can't help it that I'm not a doctor or a lawyer like the rest of them. I work hard for my money and I workout hard but I lack of the ability of talking. I am chinese, but over here there's like no chinese people. and I'm like an outcast when I'm hanging out with viets, cam, laos, etc. Because I don't speak their language. When I was in ny, everyone I knew talked chinese and It felt much more comfortable talking to them in chinese than english.
He's taller than me and more muscular than me. If he says he got no girls, I better jump off a bridge.
Well, I live in the ghetto, so I have to workout or look big to protect myself. taller than you or not, I'm still the midget over here So it doesn't really make a difference. I'm trying to bust my ass off working so I can get out of this hell hole and move to texas or ny or somewhere.... Cuz I'm sick of being discrimated by the people over here. ~_~ especially when I was fat, people were making fun of me and such. That's why I'm trying so hard to improve my life.
I have this theory that if I became super fat, I will be a little taller. Think about it, if I keep on eating, I can't be growing sideways forever right? My head will get rounder and my skin will be thicker. The bottom of my feet will get thicker. If I add those up, I might be at least half an inch taller.
You are right, but I don't want to fight people. I look big to intimidate them so they leave me alone instead of picking on me. A lotta big dudes out there don't even know how to fight but since they look big, people don't want to bother them.
Well, I sometimes wear boots to make myself look taller lol... and sometimes I'd spike up my hair dbz style to make myself look taller too. xD
Okay, but the reason you wanna become taller is to attract girls right? Let's say your theory does work, but would girls like you now that you've become a fatass? -tongue2
who care what other ppl think, or how they see you?? you should be able to walk around knowing you can be you.. if other ppl don't accept it, fuck 'em.. why you need to work so hard just to make ppl change their view on you?? that's what not make sense lor.. trust me, if you keep think like this, you are wasting your time.. is not about the "look".. is about the attitude you present.. i give you example la.. i'm above avg size for chinese guy.. but everywhere i live, there are taller and bigger nonchinese ppl.. but they won't mess with me unless they are incredibly stupid.. coz like i say, is about confidence and showing you can be you without being afraid.. i'm not try to brag like i am the best in the world in anything.. but the point is i know i don't have to be
exactly.. that is very unhealthy lor, try to become fat.. maybe by the time you find somebody, you might die already coz of heart attack or something.. so don't try to be fat
Your words makes a lot sense, I'll remember it. But sometimes, my mind is just not decisive enough to change when the time comes. I'm not self-confident and I'm in-decisive, which is a bad combination for me. I will try to gain more confidence, I just need to work on it I guess. Physical Training isn't the only thing I need to train I guess, I'll need to spend some time on mental training.
