first off, this really should be something u should be asking her. has she given u her opinion? does she feel the same way about the relationship? is this something she wants to continue even with the distance? u really need to know her side since this relationship hasn't been going on that long. long distance relationships are HARD. trust me. i know. there are times when u are so fed up and sick of the distance that u just want to walk away from it all. not to mention the fact that u just want that person there with u. so honestly, it has only been a month, how deep can ur affections be? i know i sound kinda pessimistic but i am speaking from the fact that i deal with long distance. do u really want to deal with it? if not, then just walk away now.
read this VVV pretty much true.. is just too short time.. how much do you really know about each other in one month?? just coz you have feeling doesn't mean you should based important decision of just one month feeling and move?? move to where?? how to make money?? what if they really find how each other live and not like it, then what?? what if they break up, then what will the girl do?? the guy can continue his life study, but the girl is in a foreign place and don't know anyplace.. what if they find out more about each personality and just is not match?? those are just SOME of the factors.. there's many more to consider you see.. you can not just do stuff base on feeling.. that's where ppl mess up
^ They both can know they have strong feelings for each other if they've been spending some intensive time together AND the question was whether to start this relationship or not because he recognize there's this chemistry between them. BUT, I never said he should start the relationship. Period. edit: correction, I did say that there might be a chance if they both don't mind to migrate; think of this: they prob have met each other at the uni. Maybe they both are doing the same study/courses and she can try to find a job in Taiwan if she's graduated. There must be some job for here if she's a graduated who speaks English and Taiwanese? Same hor him.
if u think u can maintain a long distance relationship they go 4 it. but then again since u've only been 2gether for about a month its very early in a relationship to try somethin long distance
i believe its not the amount of time but the quality of time spent... plus.. i thought they've already known each other for ages... n now they've only develope feelings? no? hmm @OP should update us yup yup.. i thought they were both like uni students... n that guy's a uni grad... that's why he is returnin to taiwan.... u can always find a job at leeds ... i would still say.... "tell her where both of u stand and decide together"
Honesty is the best policy. Speaks what's in your mind to her. Have an open discussion. See what she have to say about it all. If she loves you too, she'll wait for you or vice versa. Long distance is tough but can be worked out. Just be prepare for anything. Good-Luck!
ya need to talk to her bout the current situation, before makin any decisions... yea, listen to the advice from the other guys...but other than that, i can only say good luck with u n ur girl...
its hard to do wat is best for u n her. but if u really like her...u guys should have fun with it and see where things go...n talk about it between you two. see wat she thinks about it
Yep, like everyone says....talk to her about it.... 1 month is a short time and I guess the first months of a relationship is always very nice and romantic... but whats left after that? It's hard...because if you let this love go u might regret it later... but i guess its too early to make big sacrifices... tough one... i assume she knows that ur leaving in a month right? How does she feel about it? U know....im overseas too right now.... and I sorta dont wanna start a relationship with any guy here because i do not wanna get attached to anyone...I only have 3 months left... what if i really fall for a guy.... i dont wanna hurt myself or the guy... because i know that I dont want a long distance relationship... Goodluck....!!!
Yeap BR i guess it depends on individuals and from my point of view why are you only looking at it from your point of view it aint your relationship only it includes her too...So, you should ask her of what she thinks and whether if she is willing to go to taiwan or maintain a long distance relationship a not though i have to say they hardly work out......But, in the end it depends on her too -^_^ So, talk to her about it and see what she thinks
