help me !!! is this person stupid?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by Aznguy123, Jul 8, 2007.

  1. Aznguy123

    Aznguy123 Well-Known Member

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    Hi.
    I broke up with this girl for a month. After the break up she keeps calling me and texting me saying shes love u and crap. Same thing she was going out with her ex and behind doors*sex*. Then last nite she freaking msg me saying " I don't feel that way for you anymore, I'm doing good if that's want you really want to know I doing good with Charlie I hella hate you that's why I don't want anything to do with you ever again so don't call me don't aim me or text me anymore and yeah you can hate me for life if that's what you want to do cause I really don't give a fuck about what you have to say and I don't want shit to do with you just think that we never met and leave everything as it. Throw anything you have of me away cause I did that long time ago so just throw it away and think that we never met good luck with out me cause I never wanted you since the beginning i'm doing good with out you so bye forever " im like wtf??? why the fuck is she saying this wen i broke up wid her already?? wow im having all these weird feelings and i have no idea what to do....... and i have BEEN stop caring i dont no why im feeling this

    and i got ALOT OF hw: presentation . report . report

    SOMeONE HELP ME !!!
     
  2. lee-lee

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    she's just bitter. don't even waste ur time thinking about it.
     
  3. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    ^Yup I agree, she must be bitter or sth, and trying to get you to think of her, by messaging all that crap.
    At first she said she loves you and all that, but when you didn't respond, she got angry and scolded you. It's normal.
    Just delete and forget about it if you don't care for her anymore.
     
  4. Jamien

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    Maybe you're feeling incredulous? I mean, maybe she's angry u won't take her back so she spews this crap?Anyhow, she doesn't seem like the kinda girl that's worth thinking over. Andd get ur priopities straight. U have hw, which affects ur future that she may not be in. Do that first b4 looking at all this confusing methods.
     
  5. Aznguy123

    Aznguy123 Well-Known Member

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    i agree but its my first and shit this is some bad experience
     
  6. Taxloss

    Taxloss Stripper Vicar

    What Lee-Lee said; don't waste your time on it. All she wants is your attention and if you give in (whether reply in anger or trying to be friends with her) she'll win. Keep ignoring her and she'll hate you forever (who cares, she's probably a bittered psycho anyway) and it will drive her crazy.

    If she keeps contacting you try change your phonenumber.
     
  7. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    Just take this as a crush that you've experienced. You're still young and only been out with this girl for a month. It's not love and don't let this dampen your spirits.

    Concentrate on your studies first and you'll get to experience love when you matured.

    Yeah, change your number or autodelete her messages without reading them. (You have call screening right?)
     
  8. Jamien

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    first time? that is harsh. maybe u didn't love her that way. she may be ur first gf, but not your first love.
     
  9. Aznguy123

    Aznguy123 Well-Known Member

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    somoen want to give some advice of wat i can do to like NOT THINK ABOUt HER dumb ass

    after i broke up wid her i excerise like crazy got my packs in 3 weeks
    now i lost interest in everything i wanna do HELP ME!!!
    and my hw due monday! tMORRW!!!! 7/8
     
  10. Aznguy123

    Aznguy123 Well-Known Member

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    maybe i never thought of that !!! thx


    but anyone wanan tell me why am i feeling like uh shit?
     
  11. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    Guilt. Cause she cursing you out and all. Makes you feel and wonder what happened and what have you done to cause her to hate you like that.
    But like i said, it's just her STRATEGY to get your attention.
     
  12. Aznguy123

    Aznguy123 Well-Known Member

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    i never buy in to her stupid shit wen she gets mad i tell her wen u done getting mad we can talk about it or drop it
     
  13. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    So then what's your problem? Just get on with your life as usual. Everyone here's telling you it's just one of her strategies and it seems that you yourself are aware of that.
     
  14. Aznguy123

    Aznguy123 Well-Known Member

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    nevermind i get the point i dont even know why im saying all these stupid things thx guys

    save me time to think hehe
     
  15. Taxloss

    Taxloss Stripper Vicar

    (what is hw? Homework?)

    Wel, erm try watching as many of films you can, unless you have homework to do? In that case study like your life depends on it.

    Or:

    draw a a version of that girl (even a stick figure will do) write her name on it and ear it in pieces and throw it in a bin as a closure?
     
  16. Jamien

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    The gist of it is, don't think aboout her or what she said. She isn't worth it or worth getting back together with. She's probably angry at you and is spewing crap to make you really guilty, to say you're sorry and take her back. It's another tactic. maybe she feels begging ain't working so she's doing this.

    Just continue your life and complete stuff that can give you a future.. She can't give you that.

    And yeah, Just because you're with someone a first time doesn't mean she's your first love. First love is usually someone you treasure and will never forget no matter wat right? I don't think you treasuer her, so rule it out. My opinion comes from real life experience. Brighten up. Some lucky girl out there is waiting to give you a real tste of wonderful first love. You gotta close one book to open another. Your chapter with your ex is over. Close it and walk away. You have a lot ahead of you.
     
  17. Aznguy123

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    THANKYOU BUDDY!! IT MAKE SENSE NOW !! SHES A HOE!!!! HAAH THANKS YOU MY FRIEND!!!! U HELP ME ALOT!
     
  18. xmichelly

    xmichelly Well-Known Member

    Man, don't even think about it. She's just a psycho. She probably got dumped by the other guy and she wanted to seem like she was doing hella good so you would want her back. No one wants to be with someone like that anyways. You can find a much better girl! After homework of course -^_^
     
  19. aniking_7

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    One of my Muslim classmate was dating a girl and notice she was the ex girlfriend of one of his friend so he always trying to ask people like me to beat this other guy up because I know the other guy from junior high and he even follow me after school. What a stupid person so I yelled at him and ignore him afterward.
     
  20. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    Great story. So what is the relevance to the OP's topic?