Here's my question...

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by MadeinChina, Jul 10, 2007.

  1. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    You mentioned that shes desperate also... so age is not a factor that would make her know better.
     
  2. lee-lee

    lee-lee Well-Known Member

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    no no, i agree with u on just totally ignoring her. whatever he had with this girl can't even be considered a relationship.
     
  3. Kachi_no_Kemuri

    Kachi_no_Kemuri Well-Known Member

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    mein gott!

    That is so overrated.

    The oldest "trick" in da book yo! -clapclap
     
  4. zero_c

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    ^ Since she is not really your GF, you can ignore her. Since you guys never really said you were going steady, you'll only look like a fool if you give the impression that you thought you were going out. Just block her phone number and don't answer any of her messages for a while. She'll get the idea. Unless she comes knocking on your door, breaks in and rape you.....
     
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    lol sorry the arrow was aimed at op, i'm confused now lols
    @ OP but do you see her everyday or something, work/ school together, she know where you live and all? cause if not then it would be easier............ cause if she know where you live and all, you might have a problem....
     
  6. MadeinChina

    MadeinChina Well-Known Member

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    HOLY CRAP! I hope that won't happen cuz she lives like 5 minutes away from me. Good thing that she doesn't know where I live....
     
  7. 無得頂

    無得頂 Well-Known Member

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    aznsensation's solution is to "just stop talking to her, block her phone number, block her sn, block her email." That shows one is surrendering to the girl and it will give one a bad reputation. The girl won't know her problem and tell everyone how you acted.

    My solution is to tell her indirectly to stop the pursuing and chasing by telling her you are busy and you hate people (her) who are annoying. If she gets the message early on, she will save some face and you might save a possible friendship.
     
  8. MadeinChina

    MadeinChina Well-Known Member

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    I don't see her everyday, thank god! I will just try ignoring her and maybe, hopefully she'll stop.
     
  9. zero_c

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    If she does.. then you can start a thread on PA "A chubby girl raped me with a strap on"
     
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    ^ lol if you want a good reputation, just go do some bitch-smackin' tell it straight up, "don't fucking bother me again you ugly annoying bitch," otherwise you have to use the time-consuming way and actually hope she doesn't bother you anymore lols
     
  11. xmichelly

    xmichelly Well-Known Member

    I think it's pretty obvious that's she's very desperate for company. And it's only been a week? O.O Don't do any of that blocking/erasing her from yourself, just tell her straight up face-to-face. If you don't tell her and just ignore her, she might not get the message and keep going after you. It's a lot less cruel than if you were just to ignore her and let her keep pining over you. And if she still doesn't get the message after you tell her ... then I have no idea what you can do -unsure
     
  12. MadeinChina

    MadeinChina Well-Known Member

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    -dead-cry2
     
  13. lee-lee

    lee-lee Well-Known Member

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    hate to tell u this but ur solution will also give u a bad reputation regardless. that's why i asked if ur single now. ignoring this relationship because it can't really be considered a relationship but an actual relationship where the two ppl have been dating. u ignore the girl, she doesn't understand whats going on so she continues to look for u. she's prob thinking, "what's going on? is he alright? did something happen to him?" eventually she'll hear that u are okay and finally figure out that u just wanted to ignore her and not end the relationship properly. instead u just took the chicken way out. now her thinking becomes, "that loser couldn't even have the balls to tell me to my face that it's over." so it just 180's back aznsensation's solution.
     
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    damn a fat domanatrix, now this shit creating bad images in my head lmao
     
  15. Taxloss

    Taxloss Stripper Vicar

    ..and you haven't told her where you work huh? (if you have a summer job or something?)
    Once had a friend who really got stalked by a crazy chick at his work and he went hiding lol.
     
  16. 無得頂

    無得頂 Well-Known Member

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    Ignoring her without even saying anything is avoiding the problem. You didn't even try to tell the girl what is wrong or for what reason you ignored her.

    Telling her you hate people who always bother and call you will give her a signal that you are not interested in her. If she doesn't get the signal, then of course you have to ignore her.

    I don't see how a girl will think "that loser couldn't even have the balls to tell me to my face that it's over." If a girl does think that, then she will think that if one uses aznsensation's solution of just ignoring her without saying anything at all.
     
  17. MadeinChina

    MadeinChina Well-Known Member

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    no one knows where I work right now, which is a good thing.
     
  18. lee-lee

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    that's why ur not a girl
     
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    @ 無得頂, hey man if she doesn't get the signal you getting the same result so why bother with all that work lols, unless if once she doesn't get the signal, you do some "explaining", that would probably help lols.
     
  20. zero_c

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    Just ignore her, plain and simple. And its not like you guys even held hands, kiss or have sex already. Why make it more complicated by playing more games with her, just ignore ignore and ignore.