Avoiding her to tell her excused ur wont get the point but if she doesnt understand what ur mean u just said the true things. And even she hate to hear it or avoiding it but the point is ur just tell what ur heart said. But i dont really sure if she is a stalker if she does i think ur can always changed ur email and phone no. that isnt hard.
Somehow MIC(madeinchina) it seems tat basically i think ur those type of guys tat don really respect chicks no offense but from the way u rank them it seems inappropriate and it also seems like you r more turned off by the fact she is not hot rather than desperate.....I think if she is pretty you would like her despite she being desperate,,,,-rolleyes
^ he says he getting an ugly girl because he is desperate, what do you expect lol, but yea i think he's more turned off by her rank on his scale (8 or 2 out of 10 lols) than how desperate she is too lols.
hmmm....just tell her shes not ur cup of tea when she calls u again... please do it nicely but very clear... =) goodluck!
Gah she called me again today @_@ I didn't pick up... I just left my phone in the car and went to gym and also to the comment from pineapple, I actually respect women a lot. Hell, I fall in love with every girl I see and I've never treated them badly. Of course, before I was more of a desperate guy. Now I'm less desperate and still treat girls really nice and help them out. So if you think that's not respecting girls, then Maybe I should do otherwise?
come on...be a man and tell her whats up..u cant do this to her!! - for someone who has been treated bad by girls u should know better man... just tell her u dont like her or whatever....she might leave u alone and stop calling u... i mean...thats what u want right?
but it's not like they ever really had a relationship. but honestly, madeinchina, just tell her. not because u owe her anything but i think the sooner u tell her to bugger off (not in those words!!!), the faster this will be over and done with.
hum...ye, just tell her, you see in every relationship communication is key, no matter how you cringe and want to ignore her. if you want to end it, just end it, tell her you don't want to drag her on, and that's why you want to end it. Dragging on = velly bad in the end, she'll just be even more hurt. so yeah, in the end, it's your choice, so deeply consider it, i think everybody's given you some good perspectives, so best of luck, hope you make the right decision.
yeah but she obviously likes him...and if the feeling isnt the same wouldnt it be polite to let her know about it... even if its just to make her stop calling?
it's only been a week. how deep of liking can it be? anyways, for all we know, she could just be desperate as hell like he was. and that was why it started. hope everyone takes note of this relationship. see what happens when ur not truthful in the first place?
Ok...it has only been a week i know that...but he says he wants her to stop right.... so what he needs to do is TELL HER TO F OFF in a very nice and subtile way.... =)
Well, technically from the way you rank them whether they are do-able or not seems........Somehow, I would not liked to be ranked like this its like all they care is that whether i am do-able a not...But, neways I guess its ur method then can't say nething bout it. Honestly, send her a card and write everything you want in it if you can't talk to her face to face cos sending a text is just quite harsh. I think its beta if you sort it out asap before it gets worse...Some desperate chicks would commit suicide ya know when they have a high hope for something as time goes by....Good luck with it
