Heya guys I want get some opinions on what you think about this situation. I was talking on the phone with my girlfriend last night, but then there is another guy on the other line, so she told me to hold. They talked and I waited for an hour for her to call back. I asked her who was it and what you guys talked about. She said its a guy friend and we were just talking about the old times. I was like 'ooOoo, but why does he call so late?". She said she doesn't know and not to worry. I feel paranoid because what kind of guy would call a girl late at night? Have the opposite sex ever call you late at night like 11pm and talked for like an hour?
i have, done it a bunch but i do admit kinda suspicious cause these guys have either liked me, or have been exes that were catching up (i have one ex whom we always find each other when we are looking for advice within our current relationships, it's kinda funny to think about) for now just trust your gf honestly you never know but the guy might be after your girl BUT, if she really likes you have faith in her and a jealous bf is never fun
believe in her its not that big of a deal if she loves you and if she does have her rights to have her friends and since they were talking about old times then they musta met a while and want to catch up at old times or the guy just upset and wanted to chat with someone no biggie
LOL....when i first read the topic name i thought he was askin about actual nightcalls....hahaha Some people have late work scehdules and aren't free in the mornin so maybe that was the only time he had to call her and talk to her about stuf...so no need worry too much about it...if you trust your gf then i think u should be ok.
11pm is fine. Heck i even got calls in 12:30 in the morning. But when it comes at 1am and onwards then that should be a sign that you need to worry about. Other than that, its all blue
U have to prove if that guy calls her every night, if it is, then something is happening between them. I had seen this event happened before, i broke up with my girlfriend because i found out she likes another guy. They call each other 5 to 8 times a day.
one more thing, when u ask her who was calling, but she is unwillingly to answer, then u must take action to find out who is the guy
thanks for your opinions =D greatly appreciated i guess it is true that i just have to trust her and have more faith on her
yes you have full faith in her and not think about it. But truthfully how many girls here would tell their BF they will call their BF back in an hour just so they can take to a guy friend?
Hah, well IMO, your gf isn't hiding anything. If she's really having something with this other guy, she wouldn't have told you to hold on and call you back later... Why would she wanna create suspicion for herself? Your gf was honest there... so there's no reason to doubt her. If she wanna lies to you, she could easily do so, and tell you some GIRL called her. The guy was probably just an old friend of hers like she said, and she asked to call you back because it's rare that this guy calls her, so they had a chat.. and catch up on some old times. No big deal -^_^
yea awesome point yea not every girl is thinking in her head "why i dont i tell the truth and get my bf suspicious over things that i should be hiding"
Or it could be reverse psychology because she can think "Let me tell him its a guy and tell him the truth so he would think that I have nothing to hide"
Isn't it easier to tell him it's her gal pal??? Or even easier, tell the other guy that she'll call him back, and finish her talk with her bf first...? Stop scaring him
