Sigh, some of my frens always bitch at me and all i could do is just gulp it down. I am just not those type that would bitch back at them, I was just not brought up like that. They always bitch at me for nearly everything i do, sometimes it annoys the hell out of me. I wonder if for those people frens are to be bitched at when they are not having a bad mood or something -ohmy Totally sucks!!!!!!!!
those who bitch at you are not your friends at all....they are a bunch of bitches....time for new friends...pinky lol....
Hmmm.... I know friends are suppose to share problems, but bitching seems a little over the handle. And if they bitch at you so often, they probably just need someone/something to be a listener, it doesn't have to be you. They're not your friends Pink, you're just thir bitching post. Move on, or at least tell them you're not obligated to be their bitching post (in a nicer sorta way of course)
GROW A BACKBONE DONT BE SUCH A PUSHOVER but be careful, one day if you blow, it might result badly too they might be 1) using you to vent, 2) actually think of you as a friend i had a friend like you i use to nitpick at her about everything she did although she was book smart, she had no common sense, no manors, no social skills everything i "commanded" her to do, she did, she might of complained and whined, but she never said no although some thought of me as bitchy, others though of me as a just a harsh teacher HA HA HA
well pinkapples, first of all, u gotta figure out whether these ppl are really ur friends cause friends should not be bitching at each other all the time. however, there are circumstances. if they are bitching at u for doing something stupid then there's legitamacy in them yelling at u. i have a friend that is pretty much the dumbest person ever and just does everything wrong. so she does get bitched a lot from me and my friends. but if they are just bitching at u for the sake of it, then u should just tell them that's it ur life and they have no right in yelling at u like this. u don't have to yell or anything. just tell them firmly.
^ nah ... sometimes you have friends that will be around for 5-6 years and out of the blue, bit you on your butt behind your back. that is ... friends!
I know that friends come and go cos i have a different bunch of frens from high school to college and then to uni. Let me give you guys an instance, when i made century egg porridge with ginger for them, they did not say thank or nuts, they kept saying i am crazy for putting so much ginger so what if i like it and i did not know they don like ginger....And then they going on and on about how thinly i gut the ginger slices i was geez...get the F*** out if u don wanna eat....-huh but obviously i did not do that...
Lol.....i do admit that i could be a pushover sometimes....but they don teach me nothing so aren't no teacher and i've got manners and social skills but i think they kinda know that there is nothing that i would do in return so they could do wateva they wan without giving a shit how i feel... Sorry to multi post ....-unsure
u should have. i woulda walked over to the fridge, grabbed a whole ginger threw it into their congee, and been like, "now is it thick enuf?"
I've been three years separated from some of mine, never heard from them ever since. but as rini said, pinkapples, grow a backbone.
For me, friends that are nice to me in return i will always keep them close to me...the one that aren't nice etc i just don't give a damn. I used to think friends are everything, they're always going to be with you but i was wrong they just comes and go especially high school friends as we graduate and stuff we do different things and different life and making new friends we just become distanced or just not friends nemore? we just ain't bestfriend or close friends. but not all my high school friends are distance from me, the one that are close to me in high school, we're still good friends till now they're the one i keep close. The one that treats you bad, you don't need to treasure them. it's best to keep a distance from them so you can make new and better friends. if you feel that they're always been a bitch to you, they're always going to be a bitch to you no matter what. I just hate it when friends becomes a group of bullies! it makes you feel small and when you strike back at them...they all go against you and then they're be like "i dun wna be ur friend anymore" bla bla. Do you ever have a thought that maybe your friend "doesn't like you?" if they like you why would they bitch about you? for me...if i dun like someone i'll definitely bitch about that person to my friend lol, but i'm not a bad person okay! hahahaha My conclusion is your friend is Fu*king GAY go get a new friend.
Lol.....easier said than done ehh...I am not really a pushover in a sense, i do say no to them but i just don fight back when they are bitch at me...Like i said i am just not brought up that way, i find it rude to bitch at people or frens. So, i find them rude and i would not follow their foot steps. I ditched a couple but occasionally its real hard to ditch some that you've known longer....if you get wat i mean....BUt thanks for the advice...Just needed some listeners..
i have a lot of friends, but i only chill with about 15 or so occasionally. none of us bitch at eachother unless we get really angry at eachother. we would make fun on one another but would never mean it. we are always there for each other and helping out whatever we can. i used to have a friend who would always bitch at me and be hella mean to me. i am also one of those who doesn't bitch back. i got so sick of this guy that i wouldn't chill with him for a long while. after i stopped, most of my other friends stopped to. then he changed and we're now good friends.
Lol......thats the best one should have done that ehh....But, i just don make no nuts for them already since they don appreciate it....-sweat
I get what you mean but you should try to explain to them and say that you don't like it, if they treat you the same way you treat them, they should understand it to an extent that they wouldn't constantly do it to you, but if they don't respect you, you shouldn't respect them.
