i'm about 95% certain that the guy likes ur gal... n the fact ur gal put him before u shows that she likes the attention... but she mite still think of u as her first choice...
^Now, let's not all jump to conclusion before knowing the facts for sure... We don't know if the guy calls his gf regularly or no? It might be just a one-off thing... That the guy called her to catch up on old times. I get these calls once in a blue moon, u know.. And one hour is quite a reasonable length to 'catch up'... Unless he finds out the guy calls her regularly, then for sure, this guy is interested in his gf ... -^_^
mmmmmmm yeh. And this is how it usually goes. Caller: RING RING RING RING RING! Me: *I swear to god it better not be her* Hello... Caller: (Knows I'm not too happy about being woken up.) Hii..... It's me...! Me: Omg, what time is it?? Caller: It's onnnnly so and so, so... what's up? Me: Omg... Caller: What? You don't want to talk to me??? Me: I was sleeping... Caller: Hmph! Fine. Me: Ok fine talk. (Goes back to sleep and wakes up with the "if you want to make a call please hang up and try again" voice.)
xD i dont know how often he calls her. hmm.... i want to know, but also at the same time i dont... denial isnt it ? =/ i want to hear the answer but im too afraid to accept it.
^Just ask her about it if you don't feel comfortable.. No point letting the doubt nag you for days rite? Besides, I think she's probably got nothing to hide... don't worry!
I wouldn't really worry about it. Just trust your gf. I agree. If I was going to lie to my bf about some guy who called, I'd say it was my sister or something, just someone that wouldn't be suspicious. If your gf told you straight up that it was a guy, she probably believes there's no reason for you to worry or be jealous. Now that's not fair. I've never done it before, but there are other people out there to talk to besides one's bf/gf. There's no reason that his gf shouldn't be able to talk to a friend, At least she called him back.
trust, but dont fully trust her. what if it is real, u might have a deeper broken heart. i know she will just feel bad for u, but she is happy that she is starting a new relationship
Well I haven't heard one girl that would make their BF wait an hour and talk to another guy at 11:00 PM. And its not its important, it was just to catch up. Most guys only talk to girls late because they like them, its a fact. Of course there are always exception to that, they could be best friends since forever. The guy just broke up with someone and needs someone to talk to. Or something bad happened and the guy needed someone to talk to.
women r emotion-centric... they like to talk abt their feelings or just talk things out in general... where as men r goal-orientated... which means they like achieving goals n u do that by making action not using words... so normally a would rather spend an hour doing guy stuff rather than talking/listening to a woman talking abt her feelings unless he has an interest in her...
^That guy could be a long-time friend , just callin her to chat. I have had calls like these, like i said , these guys are not interested in me, nothing more than just friends.. and they call to catch up occasionally.
Yup agree... in my situation is girls tho. @ OP, just sit back and relax. Dont be oversensitive for a small issue like this, because when you start having doubt, it will only grow. There doesnt seem to be anything about this incident that leaves one to be suspicious...
i have no doubt u mite feel nothing but friendship towards ur guy fds... but u mite get a lil surprise if u turn up to them when ur feeling most vulnerable...
Yeap, I got calls from this guy every night but we were just really good frens we talk about everything on the phone homework and jokes....But, he calls me to ask for homework so i always joke that i am his personal secretary...But, it did caused suspicions with ma family they were getting freaked out bout me getting into a relationship but me and ma fren knows that we are good frens..-innocent
just dont think too much ... i mean if she lie ...... leave her ...... its not really worth stressing your self out over a phone call...... and dont take her phone and check who called her
^ don't temp him to do that lols, that would seriously cause more problems if she finds out, girls hate guys going into their privacy and will go psycho on you....
Actually I do called my friends at night (around 2am) while she's chatting wif her bf using another phone ... so she ends up chatting wif me 2 hours then only call her bf back ... The truth is, I'm juz calling an old friend to chat ... since we're close to each other last time in school and nvr seeing each other for a long time ... don't worry, she loves you i think ... if not she probably forgot to call you back ...
