I did not expect one too but just the point that they bitched about it ticked me off<_< I only wanted for them to enjoy themselves cause all of us were having exams and i finished mine earlier so i thought of cooking for them to help them destress.....
Even during normal days i get treated like that....Ihhh, i dunno anymore unlucky in friendship and also love life (havent had one before and thats sad, but not desperate yet) I already planned for the worse hahahaah
A mixture of both hahaha but only a particular few are giving me probs and don worry i am not interested in them at all....And this is not a love turning to hate thingy hahahah if u think it is-sweat
I have a bunch of friends that I known for 18 years. Most of the times we like to bicker and bitch to each other. Like if one person go to buy drinks, we would sometimes go "and you didn't even open the drinks for us". and the friend would reply "f%^k you".
no no no cook out the ginger flavor, then take it out then they are stuck eating this awful ginger flavor, but they can't find the evidence to yell at you about actually the same with me my Ex said something to me before "if they are truely thankful, they dont actually have to say the words out loud for you to know that they are thankful" which is true, when my friends say "SO DELICIOUS" to my cooking, i take that as more gratitude than a polite thank you I feel the same way about the word Sorry too, one friend always says it with no feeling, so you know it's just being polite and another friend one time did something bad and REPEATEDLY kept saying it, i told him to stop talking, not because it was annoying, but i could tell he felt extremely bad as it is and i didn't want him to feel like he was inconvienting me with his problem but more for him to focus on us fixing the problem do these few act the same way to other people? it might be a personality problem ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ my advise, before you follow what everyone is saying and go and ditch your friends at least try to talk to them about it first after a bit of fighting and that all calms down if they dont get better after an honest talk THEN you can ditch them but they might not realize what they are doing, because they are so use to it
Lol...i don mind that actually like some me and my frens call each other bitch but we know we are kidding but when i get shouted at i don like it.... Ihhhh if they say nice comment, i won't be that annoyed but the complaining part that ticked me off and thanks for the reply Rini a few here were dying to hear your comment hahaha -flow God knows if its the personality or not but ma other frens know that it takes a lot to piss me off cos i am just not an angry person..
i too get sick of the people who cling to me they only ever try to be nice when they want help on there home work or they want me to do something for them the rest of the time they ditch me and so i go out hang with other people
aww pinky it happens to me too... >.<" dats y i hate my school.. its filled wif drama queens and bitches =P its like u dont belong.. it seems like u dont fit in da croud cas ur da only one who seems to feel that way.. but ya. ... like when i go bowling wif a group a frds... der would always be someone who like negatives me... wen someone asks me if i take any classes... i'd say yes.. n one of my "friends" would say ooo but she sucks real bad... and it doesnt even look lik shes joking... ><" omfg... and another time....we were doing art for this concert.. and like someone spilt da pant.. and theyt totally blamed it on me.. wen i was beside da person who did it -.- ya.. and i had to gulp it down.. but ya.. pinky its ok.. cas WE WILL MEET NEW PPL =DDD
Lol.....ur not alone..i was the alien in school or maybe outkast since i havent dumped or got dumped before(that was the bimboic criteria to be famous in ma school). So, they pick on me, say that i am poor and ma clothes are hideous...oh well, those arse holes come and goes..So, don let those dumbass ruin it for ya. -noclue
just treat people the way they treat you. seriously if people treat you like crap then you shouldn't treat them any nicer. If you are feeling sad about your friends bitching at you, then you should just do something about it. Being passive and not speaking up about it won't do anything to help.
Yeah, what do you mean by friends? Friends aren't forever...almost always. Just keep the ones you treasure close to you and avoid those who hurt your feelings.
At some point or another, even good friends hurt each other, guess it all comes down to what you want out of the friendship.
thats RIGHT! i had friends in the past, they stab me in the back, it hurt, i learn from my mistake. friends are usually people you can trust and feel comfortable around to be yourself and have a laugh. acquantances are people yoiu probably see day to day, say hi, how are you and bye to. i could say i probably have only two people i can probably count as one of my proper friends who i know will be there for me through thick and thin. hell he actually stuck by me when i was really upset even when he had a girlfriend, so i know he wont ditch me even when he has another girlfriend. lol then theres my boyfriend currently, i wont need to say any more aside from even in my biggest crisis of my life so far, he stuck by me no matter how tough it got, so i love him very much for that. they are not friends, now dont take this in a literal sense, but have you ever heard the line "most girls have a fat ugly friend to make themselves look better" NOW berry, im NOT saying that you are fat OR ugly, but its probably in that sorta way, they make you look crap and bad to make themselves look and feel better about themselves, THOSE people are not your friends! you know you shouldnt bottle things up. because at the end of the day, they continue to walk all over you and make you feel worse and worse. stand up for yourself and not necessarily BITCH in their face, but state truth about yourself when they try and make you look stupid. or if you fancy a bit of a cheeky come back just say something like "shouldn't talk about yourself that way....are you trying to fish for compliments or something? It's not really working. It's ok, we still love you *smile sweetly*"
