unusual aquaintance/friend

I had class with this girl back in college only once about 3 years ago
we talked a lot and did a project together

after that she listed me on facebook and we swapped number
and i hung out once with her to watch a movie

every so often her name pops up on my facebook and she invites me to do something
(honestly!) i've always just been busy every time she does invite me


but is it me or is this kinda weird, i actually have not hung out with this girl in three years, only bumped into her at school once after that time
but she still invites me out for lunch or something else every so often

 

maybe she likes u as a friend and she had a good time with you so its not that big of a deal for it to happen dont you think so

 

Maybe she has lesbian thoughts about you.

 

actually i've wondered this one several times

 

or maybe she's just nice. how about giving her the benefit of the doubt and believe she's just nice and liked u as a friend because u guys clicked?

 

^ well yea
i'm going to have dinner with her sometime next week maybe

but still kinda feel weird about
it's not like a "wow haven't seen in a long time" kinda thing
but like a persistance in it that creeps me out

 

^ Just don't get drunk with her, might lead to some crazy action.

 

^ can you film it if it does and share it here?

 

maybe she doesn't have that many friends... good that are you giving her a chance with maybe having dinner with her

 

Nothing wrong with that. Some people just put more effort into maintaining their 'friendships' that's all. You should be flattered, she finds you worthy of that effort... -^_^

 

she probably doesn't have that many friends, just wanna hang out, unless she calls you everyday and im/email you, then you should be scared lols

 

i think that's sweet of her... if i like a girl n we hung out before i would without a doubt invite her out again... it's easy to get along with guys... but it's not easy to make female fds...

 

^ Cause when girls get together, its like a cat fight LOL

 

sadly ur right... *sigh*

girls tend to get bitchy when they get together... but those who become ur fds have nothing to offer but a true friendship... i wanna make more chick fds...

 

I think it's normal. In fact, I think it's really nice of her to do that. I mean, a lot of people say they'll keep in touch but they don't, so it's nice if someone actually tries.

Is that the only thing you could think of?!

 

Nah..I think she just see you as a nice person to hang out with.....and its good that she cares to keep in touch I guess in some ways you could call it fate or 'yuen fan' so don think too much about it...

 

there are many kinds of people....there are some that can be your friends after sometime, and some that can get hooked to you the moment she saw you and some that started off as enemies and become friends when you get to know each other....so in your case i thought she was just being friendly...

 

it's just weird
cause i wouldn't even cal her an aquaintance

 

lmfao.
Anyway, in my opinion she might just be trying to keep in touch with you. Why don't you try to pull some time out of your schedule and hang out with her?

 

Don't assume things about her. Assumption is the moher of all problems. Just get along with her, understand her and spend time with her. whether she has lesbian intentions, or likes you, or has no other friends but you, you should only do something about it when you're sure of her intentions.

Imagine that she wants to culture a strong friendship with you but you're acting all suspicious all the time? How would yuo feel if it happened to you?

So my advise is to not jump to conclusions and just do something about it when it becomes a problem.