I know a Beijin girl who I met from an old friend of mine, actually we accidentally bumped into her, but he knows her from school. When I first met her, immediately off the bat I could tell that she was DESPERATE for a bf. I'm no way in hell attracted to her. Her physical features is that her body looks like a bowling ball, no shape whatsoever. She has lines for eyes, a round round face. A cheap and lousy eyelid job, which left scarrings. She has been living in the US for like 15yrs, yet her mentallity and knowledge is like she just came from China yesterday. Anyhows, she ended up following me to NYC when I went on vacation. I know that she likes me, but I don't want to make her cry. She's one of those fake Ms. wannabe Know-It-Alls that think that they are God's gift to Men. Problem is she never had a relationship at all. She's around 25 I think. Whenever we went out to eat, she would never bother to pay for the meals or taxi fare. Only when I tell her to pay does she oblige and gets all pissed. Her mentality is stuck in church. But all she goes there for is to goof off and look for guys. She tries to act all naive and clueless like Paris Hilton, problem is, she ain't cute. She's into buy fake stuff and bragging about it as if they were the best thing since color TV. When she followed me to NYC, she wore some cheap cheap $10 clearance jacket from a lowly store and claims that she was NYC fashionable. When I tell her her problems, she goes off on me, never wanting to listen to what is wrong. I can't stand her no more and I feel like making her cry now, due to her narrow-mind and fakeness. What to do........
Wait, has she somehow become your gf now? Or is she still 'just a friend' to you? If she's not your gf, just try to avoid her and take distance from her. If she's your gf, tell her the truth and if she gets upset and don't want to listen to you...so be it... Don't think this relationship would stand a chance if you see her as a 'Beijing Pig Problem'...-sweat
I don't see her, the pig lives in the countryside, I live in the city. We have nothing going on, so no assumptions please.
^well, then avoid her. If she keeps calling you, just say you have no time for her or you have other plans. If she doesn't take the hint then you can tell her the truth why you don't want to see her.
since they've passed the law that all men and women are equal, treat her like how you would treat a guy. Beat her up! lmao I'm just kidding. But put all jokes aside, just stop talking to her... give her a hint because the more you talk to her.. the more she will think she's all that.
its not nice calling someone a pig....=( why not start dating other girls?? =) it might sound as if you are using someone to make her bug off, but on the otherhand, you have to date someone else sometime anyway...
tell her to bug off lol. don't talk to her ever again. someone like that wouldn't even be my friend lol -dead
his problem with her is ... she's not cute, she's annoying wanna be's, she's a bragger and she's annoying the shit out of him.
^So? He said they are not even seeing each other and she's living miles apart from him. In his words, "we have nothing going on"
Yeap, totally i do not know why guys always fuss over nothing, just avoid her at all cost, don talk to her or go out with her cause these lead to misunderstanding and if she still bugs you tell her off. Somehow, some people seem to being the problem on themselves....oh well, shit happens.-whistle Oh my, now tat is a bit harsh lol there are some so called pork chops that are nice and shudn't be discriminated...
you can't fully get rid of discrimination, so nyeh. If she sounds like such a biatch, then just tell her. She'll probably get so pissed at you, she'll start an argument. She'll run away. Cry. Bitch about you to her 'friends'. Then never want to see you again. -problem solved-
Well, I just don't call all chubby/fat people "pork chops", only after I see their personality do I label them pork chops.
Lol....we hear ya but we are just advising you not to discriminate(not meaning ur doin it) but one bad experience might lead to a summary for others if ya get wat i mean -^_^ Lol...true true in a sense...like i said b4 guys always bring some probs on themselve for being too overly nice to someone...i guess u guys sure dunno how much a one to one dinner means to a girl thats why always bringing burdens on oneself, so next time try to becareful -lol
