Anyone feel like they are used???

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by pinkapples, Jul 9, 2007.

  1. pinkapples

    pinkapples Well-Known Member

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    I know.....were you used by a good friend or just random jerks.....Random jerks are not worth helping so leave them but try getting used by a good fren then get ditched over and over again until you get sick -what?
     
  2. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

    You can definitely sratch him off your friends' list.;)
     
  3. xmichelly

    xmichelly Well-Known Member

    -lol What can I say? I was an angry little child -tongue2
     
  4. vinztc

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    i'd diss the user....but i can't say i've never used anyone before...that didn't wanted to be used.
     
  5. pinkapples

    pinkapples Well-Known Member

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    Lol...How do you judge if the person wants to be used or not....I do use or get help from people but I would help them back and remember that they have helped me before....I guess in the real world things just don work like that -sweat
     
  6. philostrate

    philostrate Well-Known Member

    i did the same...i help as much as i can....if they remember how i've helped them for sure they won't be the ones who use me...and when i need help they will help me in return...this is what friends are for lol...
     
  7. minidee

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    i have felt used. for emotional support but when they're happy they stick to their supposeedly "cool friends" or even people I barely know acting fake nice for favors. it's part of life, but learn to be above them you'll come out the better person.
     
  8. pinkapples

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    Yeah...thanks for the advice..I am a changed person now...
     
  9. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    ^LOL.. why do I detect sarcasm there.. -rolleyes
     
  10. pinkapples

    pinkapples Well-Known Member

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    Now....Rainy what sarcasm hahaha.....quite fun having a mini war just now ehhh....-tongue2 and i have changed technically in a way i guess.....-sweat
     
  11. kashigal

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    I do have similar experiences with friends who just make used of me when they do need me. However, when I needed someone, they all went MIA..It's like as if there I wasn't their friends. I support your decision in not keeping contact with him, because if he's really your friends, he won't just txt you when he needs something =)
     
  12. pinkapples

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    Lol....thanks for the support and hopefully for both of us we wud not have the oppurtunity to meet suckers like this no more....one is enough so far but who knows...-unsure
     
  13. kashigal

    kashigal Well-Known Member

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    I have too many who has used me....I am those whom always be nice to someone if i regarded them as friends. But who knows, they just used me whenever they need me and the feeling sucks. There's a period when I was so withdrawn from the world, I'd rather be along so that I could avoid such things to happen again. Yup, let's hope that we won't meet anymore suckers like this anymore!!! -^_^
     
  14. Phoenix

    Phoenix *~Though she be but little, she is fierce~*

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    i know pple like that too..they come to me if they need help with h/w but ends up with me doing it for them..:(
    i know i shoudlnt but then if i refuse, i feel bad cos i feel like i let them down like..-down
    i also have a hard time saying no when pple 'need' my help...-shrug