I like most people with lots of hope tend to not like break ups so I end up staying in a relationship and see where it leads... mostly bad endings, or most of the time I have just delayed a bad ending. So now I have changed... If it doesn't work it doesn't work. Don't get too attached, because no one like a over attached ex.
i did stay in a bad relationship... ummm... it wasn't compassion or afraid of being alone... i did love him... but i wasn't getting any love back... then one day i finally had enough n walked away... then all my fds came to congratulate me... hmmm~~~ <_<
awwwww... aishiteru is such a sweetie... nah... it wasn't anything brave... just fed up... but i guess at least i didn't have other girls ringing me up telling me to leave my guy... poor u~~
lol.. it was thou.. if it was me.. i would be so afraid to walk away.. i would rather.. sit bak.. n hope for the best.. hopefully he will change.. or something good might happen to the relationship.. i hate ending stuff... :( lol.. its ages bak.. dont really care now.. hope the best for them.. lol.. actually.. i m secretly prayin that he will cheat on her too!! ehehhe tat would be karma smack on her face hehhe
awwww... poor girl... sometimes walking away really isn't that hard... u just need to think ending a bad relationship is opening a door to another one... n the next can b even worse or it could b some thing WAY better!! besides... there isn't a law stating can't get back together one day
lol true true... eeheheh u have some experience there ehhehe... oh oh i just watched.. love is not all around.. omg.. that movies makes u feel like love is just a lie... -what?
i know... thats y i believe alot of ppl esp weak ones.. tend to stay in a relationship than to break it off.... afraid of waking up i suppose...
-hug.. sek sek.. dont cry ler.. i m a the weak one too... my other nick name is.. bak yat mong... cos i m always dreaming.. hehehe dont worry.. i tot u always like to say.. once bitten twice shy rite?
But I don't like to call myself weak. <_< You can admit to that -tongue2 I like to think I was a person guided by my emotions wahaha.
well ppl who are very influenced by their emotions are weak.. lol... i will admit to that.. cos i m... only emotionally... wahahha... if u wanna wrestle me.. u sure lose ehhehe
^Bring it on!!! I learnt taekwondo okie? And i am sure my regular dose of Body combat classes do help... muahahaha -devil
i m not afraid of ur taekwando.. unless u r black belt ehhehe... but then besides that.. bring it on.. hehehe.. see me so choe loh also know i nam chai tau la~ ehehhe
but sometimes when things r so bad one party just can't b bother covering up for all the wrongs he/she did... n that leaves u no choice but to move on...
Sometimes walking away is the easy way out. A person once told me I like to run away from problems and its much easier for me to deal with the problem, which tend to hurt the other person more. After that time I never want to run away from a relationship when there are problems, cause I regret doing it. Of course there are situations where walking away is the right thing to do, like when the other is abusing you and etc.
Ah, that's right! Totally forgot about that point.. lol Hear that Aishiteru? Not everyone that stayed is weak -tongue2
if you are not happy, why stay? so your little life can be more miserable than it has to be? what are the conveniences in a relationship? midnight booty call? meaningless relationships ... i say quit and move on
hmmmm... one thing very strange abt women is that they tend to think they can change the man... it's like if i stick around long enough maybe one day he'll wake up and realise that he can't live without me and start to change... then we'll live happily ever after...
