Have you ever stayed in a relationship...

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by BabyRain, Jul 17, 2007.

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Have you ever stayed in an unhappy relationship when you should have broken up?

  1. Yes

    57.6%
  2. No

    33.3%
  3. Never been in a relationship yet

    9.1%
  1. jcy_yan

    jcy_yan Well-Known Member

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    Oh yeah, went out with this guy out of pity once, did not end well, he avoids me like the plague now hahaha
     
  2. aishiteru4

    aishiteru4 Well-Known Member

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    with abusing..i m calling the cops... not running away lol...
    i guess there are other factors which comes into play.... like if u've been with this person for ages ages ages... n one day... u found out... he doesnt love u as much... or doesnt seem like it.. n ur feelings seem to be like fading.... wont u wanna stay n try to work it out? than just running from it? ofcourse if there are other circumstances such as cheating n stuff involved... walking out would be the right move

    lol... but u need the courage to walk away from someone... n how if that person actually really really loved u so much... i cant bear to see the hurt look on ppl's faces... :( my yuek tim..
     
  3. xmichelly

    xmichelly Well-Known Member

    I entered the relationship because I felt pressured, even though I didn't like the guy that much or know him that well. Then I stayed in the relationship because I kind of felt sorry for him, since supposedly he liked me a lot. But then a month into the relationship, we started to talk more and I started having feelings for him, so that ended up good. I guess sometimes, you can grow to love someone. But then I broke up with him because he had to move. -down
     
  4. wheezo

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    wow... that works?? haha...
    i was kinda pressured into a relationship, friend bugged me, but i thought she was cute anyway and i knew she liked me... but we never really talked much. so yea, we got together and stayed for about 2 months and i broke up with her. we dint have much in common, she didnt talk much and i found her kinda boring...
     
  5. ProjectD

    ProjectD VIP yay :]

    never stay in a relationship where your uncomfortable i guess
     
  6. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    So... that will depend on the person's situation. Again, not everyone stayed bcoz of that reason.<_<
     
  7. aishiteru4

    aishiteru4 Well-Known Member

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    true true.. wot would be ur reason brain?? ;)
     
  8. i really don't get y a lot of women would feel insecure in a good relationship n starts to let her imagination run wild until everything's ruined... n yet sticks to a really really bad relationship...

    women r such complicated beings...
     
  9. aishiteru4

    aishiteru4 Well-Known Member

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    i know.. lol.. i guess thats wot makes us unique ;) ehehhe
    well i would say.. its partly the guy's fault as well.. they r the ones who makes us insecure...
     
  10. but some women, when in a perfect relationship they always think something will happen soon... n they'd do something stupid to get the guy's attention n mess up the whole thing hahaha... but yeah... it's mostly the guys fault kekekeke... i just like to blame them :p
     
  11. zero_c

    zero_c Well-Known Member

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    ^ It goes both ways, it the matter of the person's character. Some people are naturally insecure about everything in their lives.
     
  12. hmmmm... yeah... i have been with insecure guys... but since women r more emotional than guys they r more of a head ache :p
     
  13. MadeinChina

    MadeinChina Well-Known Member

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    wow what did you do to the poor guy?
     
  14. xmichelly

    xmichelly Well-Known Member

    Seriously right? I hate women -tongue2
     
  15. me too!!! that's y i'm dating men -clapclap
     
  16. wheezo

    wheezo Well-Known Member

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    haha..
    i hate women too... -.- but i can't live without them either...

    babyrain's reason to stay with the guy was because she gets to tie him up to her bed. =P
     
  17. Phoenix

    Phoenix *~Though she be but little, she is fierce~*

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    1) the sake of convenience? (because being in a relationship has been such a routine to you, you don't want to get out of it... or for example, if you stay together... and the problem of splitting up means moving out, etc.);
    Nope
    2) Fear of being alone again/lonely, after living as a couple for so long?;
    Nope
    3) Out of pity/compassion/responsibility for your partner (anything else but love)?
    Nope
    Did the relationship work out in the end, or you just ended up prolonging a painful experience?
    Like Lee Lee, have only been in 2 relationships, first one was kinda like first crush, so everything was kinda simple n naive so when it ended, i was hurt but the guy played me like a fool n i was stupid enough to believe his false promises n got dumped again..but doesnt mater now..got over him..n now i'm very happy in my current relationship...
     
  18. Jamien

    Jamien Well-Known Member

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    Girls are emotional creatures. We find it easy to attach ourselves to someone emotionally and it becomes painful to leave... Crappy feeling and experience.
     
  19. Phoenix

    Phoenix *~Though she be but little, she is fierce~*

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    Very true..
     
  20. aishiteru4

    aishiteru4 Well-Known Member

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    it is the guys fault... think bout it.. if its really goin so smoothly.. usually the girl will not think bout stupid stuff... but its only when the girl feels a certain change... so guys should stand up n take the responsibility for it.... n plus plus... i HATE the fact that... guys always say... i dont need to explain myself to u.. u r not my mother or wife!!! fine. if u dont wanna explain urself.. u cant expect us to know wots happening.. so wot else can we do but to just assume stuff?? n when we start assuming ofcourse things will start to go crazy rite? ehehehe
    so its definately not our fault... ehhehe

    they r... hehe thats y u need to give them some security ;)

    lol.. i hate woman too.. hehehe but i love myself thou hhehehe... n i m a woman.. how ironic ehheeh

    yes yes.. n thats y u have heaps of close guy frens.. n very little close girlfriends... girls are either ur hi n bye frens or ur BFFs hehehe

    ohhh... hehehe Brain.. did u hear that?? heheheheh get angry get angry.. i wanna see a dai lung fung ehehehe

    spoken like a true pioneer ehhehe