the hard part is finding what to talk about, after u can find stuff to relate in, things will flow in, hell it never flown in for me so im just bsing my advice =]
lol..u want to turn gay because you can't talk to girls... what an extreme... Mate, I'll phrase this delicately one way and rough another. 1. Talk to girls you DON"T like, then recreate that same atmosphere and conversation with the girls you DO like. 2. Just do it.
Actually it's quite difficult ... i'm about in the same situation ... I like a gal and she's working juz opposite the shop i'm working ... sometimes i look at her and she notice it(i think so) and we got greet each other if we're happen to pass by each other ... but it's juz hard for me to go over and start a conversation ... what should i do?
lol you're already past the first stage. stay cool be funny. poke fun at her sometimes... just small talk, but don't piss her off and tease her, there's a difference. like say.. if she's carryin a massive box say like... "haha are you sure you can manage =P" yeah... somethin small like that. about the original question: it's the same for everyone lol. no matter how pimp u mite think that person is, truth is the majority are wee-ing their pants too but just don't show it. that's all lol, JUST BE COOL!!!! -whistle and you gotta end up making a move anyway so stop bein chicken and just do it! u got nothin to lose
ooo .. really thx for the advice ... i'm sure going for her, since i can't cheat myself and i'm thinking of her most the time ...
be a man and just confess. Some people wait forever and then it never happens. girls can't wait that long.
^^ but in real life it's easier to say than done ... one thing i'm worrying is that if she get me wrong then we're hard to chat anymore ...
if u don't look confident in doing it, at least try to look cute when doing it.. like shy-ish, some girls like that don't get worried she wont chat... personally i don't think u've even taken the time to get to know her yet, it's more like a love at first sight thing? its more of an obsession imo... but anywho, don't worry that she won't talk to u anymore if u get rejected. ur not really close to her or anything so u got nothing to lose. the only reason ur scared of that is cos ur obsessing over her :S
erm, not really obsessing i would say but ya, i'm quite a shy guy and even that's only in front of someone that i like ... actually i'm going to chat with her this coming sunday ... well, i've to wait until that day only know whether i'll do it or not coz most probably i'll hav nothing to say and never approach her ...
just try some simple stuff to start it off... hey wuts up? how u doing? pay attention to what she's doing and you can probably ask her about stuff that she's doing seem interested... even if u aren't... =P babyrain... please come here and give me some courage. =)
ok well u no.. its ok.. cas jus keep an open mind for grls to be interested in u..cas der must be atleast one grl who has special feeligns for u =D well.. ya.. a way to build up ur confidence is trying to say i love u to a grl JUS SAY IT if ur nervouse,, look at their nose.. and say it den... =O
amen. -clapclap if ya not a good talker, just listen to what she has to say and fire back little questions and be interested in what they say (act if u have to lol) -chef but dunt let the convo die lol.
Maybe if you stop thinking that you might get in pants, then you wont be nervous at all. pretend she's one of ur guy buddy and treat her the same way.
Met this girl... blonde, blue eyes, long hair and perfect teeth and lips.... too sexy... omg... it's like dejavu... my friends warned me about white girls. but they are so perfect and I felt like I was touched by an angel.
lol, that is random?? we're tryin to help him talk to girls... and u bust it with some hot chick u met, making everyone else jealous. =P
i dunno man... i've never had the urge to get in my guy mate's pants lol. dunno abt u haha. jk bro. -bigclap
