This is a warning sign. Being dodgy is no good. She's clearly playing the two of you. She's either using you as a comfort pillow when she's not happy with him, or she have no problem liking two people at the same time. Well it depends on whether you wanna haf some fun with her, or not. If you are thinking about getting serious with her, it's not a very good idea.
If you're interested in the girl, there's nothing wrong with sharing the room as it does not mean that it'll lead to anything, but do note: 1) I believe that keeping the girl is always in the power of the man. If she's looking else where, means her man isn't doing his job. 2) Make it clear that I strongly advise against being "the other guy". So even if she tries to seduce you into bed, you better know how to fend her off. Let her know that you don't mess with girls who have long term bfs. Until she makes it very clear that she's broken up with her boyfriend, just keep doing what you do and play hard to get.
Well maybe she doesn't want to share a room with other people because she only trusts you as you're her friend? Anyways i doubt she actually likes you, problably just flirting and playing around with you. Just let her know that you're not interested.
Well there are other stuff that she did in the past that got me thinking about all this. In the beginning I didn't think much of it, but as time went by it was piling up.
its' because ur ignoring her... that makes u much more attractive to her... yea girls are retardos... so she flirts to get ur attention... but she probably just playin mind games, tryin to get ur attention. yea girls are as****s i would say, don't think anything of it... let her flirt, flirt bak if u want, have fun... don't take her seriously, but do wut u wanna do.
Well, seems that she may be looking for a new BF. SO....why not take the chance. I am not telling you to make any intimate advances, but at least show her that you are interested. It doesn't matter if she has a BF, she is not married yet, so still available. I think she is giving you a chance now!! it is not coincidence. Dont miss an opportunity. What is the worse that can happen? Both of you are adults i am sure that if you had made the wrong assumption, then maybe it may make you look a little foolish. But you seem to obviously like this girl, so at least you can let her know how you feel? I think girls will appreciate the confidence.
Best would be a big "No". You never know what kind of crap you can get yourself in by being in the same room. Girls that are dodgy might not be a good companion.
So today I went to work and told her that it would be better if we didn't share a room. People might say stuff if we stayed in the same room and etc. She said it was okay, but through out the day she didn't talk to me and ignored me. We usually go out to lunch together, but she went without me. We were in the kitchen where she was getting water and I was getting some coffee, she said hi and just left.
omg... seriously... a room is a room. id share a room with a girl i like that has a bf already... and nothing would happen... its maturity... -_-.... youre going to sleep and thats it... now the only thing i would be afraid of is my snoring.. or her snoring lol
You made the right decision in the long run. Even if you were to break them up and make her yours, what's to stop the next guy from doing so? >.< Oh yeah, cheers to my fellow Californians
True a room is a room, I have shared a room with girls before on ski trips, but this is a business trip. My other co-worker would be in the same hotel and they would know we are sharing the room together. I rather not get into all those rumors, not like its not bad enough already.
Not to mention the way that shes acting on you. Who knows what kind of things await you when you are alone with her. -unsure
Talk about a way turn just about any girl off... good line... now you don't have to worry about getting together with her ever again, even after she dumps her bf. There's a reason why I gave the example line that I did...
