Do u think its wrong to start a relationship without letting ur parents know?...lol and have any of u tried it?
is this about u?..the question is..do u think its wrong? or are u just curious? also, it would depend on the situation?
Of course its not wrong to start a relationship without your parents knowing. Your relationship has nothing to do with your parents until you are getting married.
Your parents' goal is to keep you safe and out of harms way. If you don't want to tell your parents because you know they would disapprove of his manner and character, then you definitely shouldn't do it behind their backs. Somethings are better said. It's not about being daddy's little girl, they often have wisdom that younger kids don't have yet. I was told a story recently about a 12 year old girl getting raped. The main reason she fell for the guys trap was because she hung out with the guy who she thought was cool, but didn't think her parents would approve. Thus not telling them. She barely escaped with her life and now she'll have emotional scars for the rest of her life... worth it? I think not. If your parents are understanding people, then talk it out. My mother always told me not to get a gf until after college... needless to say, I had a different time schedule, but I brought a girl who I was interested in home and my parents were no where near as standoffish as I thought they would.
its better to just let ur parents know.. iknow how it is.. there's so much u want to tell ur mom... but u cant.. n the guilt in u.. plus... sometimes.. telling ur parents might not turn out as bad as u thought it would.. wot kind r u thinking of?? -innocenti thought just a simple bf/gf relationship-innocent wots wrong with being a mama's girl? -^_^ i m mummy's n daddy's girl too!!!
same here.. i had a bf when i was 14.. my dad found out... n told me "if u ever want to have a bf.. stop wasting my money to study! just get s job" so when i found my ex i kept it a secret...it was a dang painful 6 yrs of experience... when i m upset.. i cant tell my mom.. when i m happy.. i cant tell my mom too.. -nono bad mistake
Yeah, I agree with AVANT. The reason why your parents would want to know about your love life (esp. if you're young) is to keep you out of trouble so you won't fall into the wrong hands. They're adults, so they ought to have more experience, knowledge, and wisdom about these kinds of things. If you do hook up with someone whom you know your parents will disapprove of, then better not do it. Even if you do it in secrecy, I think they will eventually find out some way or another. Yeah, parents have a way of finding out things without you being aware of it, lol. So hiding your love relationships will not work.
i didn't tell my parents anything... i'll bring a girl home after i really like them so they can meet my parents. i wont tell them we're dating or anything... but they can assume it. =) especially if she comes over often.
lol.. nah if u r a good liar... u can hide it... i manage it to hide it for 6 yrs.. hehehe my mom suspects... but then she can never find evidence to nail me down lol i guess parents do know everything.. but then wots wrong with puppy love? dont tell me... u wanna experience puppy love when u r 20? -_-2 omg... or meet ur first love when u r like 25.. n then decide oh.. ok.. just marry that person.. choices! aiks.. i hate that the most.. parents assuming... omg.. n u'll never hear the end of them =.=
actually, i'm not too sure if they know if me an my ex broke up... we're just friends now and she rarely comes over anymore, but once in long while she does.
lol.. would be so funny if they didnt know.. n how do u do it... staying frens with ur ex... its almost impossible.. the awkwardness...-unsure
i dunno, it started off as a mutual breakup, but then soon after she found another guy and i became really depressed and wanted her back and did some stupid stuff... can only laff at myself now. but it wasn't easy at first, but she's not a bad person... and i dunno, we been together for 5 yrs, don't wanna just forget about her u know? so i try to stay friends at the very least. it's been about 9 months since our breakup.
nothing wrong with starting a relationship w/o ur parents knowing no havent tried it if i did, they will soon find out about it, mum will be happy...."finally she's go a bf" -lol
