Sorry, it's kind of an odd question, I know. But let's say he's hosting a party at his house. And he says to this other girl, "Do you want a drink?" She says sure, and instead of showing her where the drinks are, he gives her the one he's been drinking. Let's say the people in question are Asian (I'm adding that fact because I suppose it's ok in some Asian cultures to share cups -shrug). If he did this in front of you, would you be mad for any reason, and at who? Would you be mad at your boyfriend for not having the decency to offer her a new drink, or at the girl for accepting the drink, etc?
i guess it's not something i'd like to c... but i'd b more mad if my bf accepts a drink from a girl that's been drinking it... i'd slap him across the face... but if a guy offers me a drink that's he's been drinking i wouldn't take it... wot if he's got a cold sore or something...
he's the host of a party ... 1) he's being a good host. 2) it's a party - where no one cares about a little bodily fluid exchanges 3) the alcohol will kill the germs
I'll be mad at bf if he doesn't have the decency to give a guest a new drink. I won't blame the girl if she accepts it as she might only accept it out of politeness.
depends on what kind of relationship they have... i share drinks with friends all the time...guess im westernized lol... if their like close friends...i guess its not such a big deal...if not...id ask questions... but dont think i'd be mad...id just find it very very strange....
When a guy offers a drink to a woman there's only one thing on his mind. The best part is offering drinks usually backfire too.
i'd be mad at the guy. the girl probably [well if it was me] was shocked and didn't know what to do so she took it and drank it, partly out of courtesy since he is the host. well i would be mad unless he was doing that to everyone, just handing them his drinks, or handing out drinks. special treatment for females that are not (1) his girlfriend (2) related to him would make me annoyed.
lol, why did you assume that I'm talking about my boyfriend? Our apartment is too small to host a party. Anyway, he has manners and would never do anything like what this guy did. We went to a party that his friend was hosting and his friend offered me his drink in front of his new girlfriend. I was trying to be friends with the girl at first, but after that she just started looking daggers at me. She didn't seem mad at all at him though. I don't know if this is a game they play with each other or what, try to make each other jealous or something. Seems really weird to me. Especially since my boyfriend was right there, too. Yeah I thought the situation was pretty awkward, but accepted the drink anyway out of courtesy. I didn't drink most of it, but I had to take a sip because he kept telling me to and asking me if I liked it. I did like the drink and said it's good. I suppose his gf was pissed @ me about that. GEeeeeez. If he was a good host, he'd have offered me a fresh drink, rather than one he'd already been drinking. Yeah, that's how I would feel too. I would also be pissed at him if he did that to everyone... I'd be like wtf, why can't you just pour a new drink for everyone? Cheap or something? Maybe he is lazy. But if he was then why would he bother to host a party and why would he bother to offer me a drink when he knows I'm not much of a drinker? Well, I could see how that would be true in a bar setting, but he was the host of a party.
unless ur the jealous type...why would it bother u that hes giving a drink in which hes drinkin from to another fem..hmph...looks suspicious to me...haha
i would think it's weird...but i think the girl being offered will decline most of the time especially with the girlfriend's presence...
^ chic probably assumed he was gonna get her a fresh drink But yea, this goes back to relationships, what kinda relationship does ur bf have w/ that guy? Frat bros? cuz then i guess that would slide among bros. Normal friends... not so much. I guess if something goes down and u need help, that friend will be willing to come to ur aid (given of course him and ur BF still friends and ur still w/ ur BF) Then of course... the obvious, how drunk was he? and... a final note, don't accept mixed drinks u didn't see get made. Might not be anything dangerous but maybe has somthing you'd object to in it
Wow, ladies here on this board is ultra sensitive...though I suppose that is the norm for the fairer sex. But come on, the guy just offered a lady a drink. It just happened to be his glass...get over it. Esp if the girl is a friend he invited to the party, I don't see anything wrong with it. Like others have said, he may be too lazy to make a new one, or is just being very warm by offering his own drink; what's the big deal? Now whether the girl takes the drink, or even drinks it is another story. If my friend offered me her drink in front of my wife. I'd take it to be polite, and put it down as soon as she walked away to make myself a new drink. But I wouldn't find it wierd or offensive that my friend gave me her drink. And if my best friends gave my wife their drink, I wouldn't mind her drinking from it. *shrugs* maybe I'm really Americanized. However if it's from someone we just met, that's another story.
Wait... did you miss the part where chic said the guy gave her a drink he'd already been drinking? -huh Cuz I don't think it would've been such an issue if the drink offered happened to be a FRESH one instead of one he'd actually been drinking, which makes it a slightly bigger issue (and disgusting) imo. Anyway, I find the guy to be pretty idiotic, and if I was his gf, I'd be more pissed at him than anyone else. He could've just given her a new drink, but then I would still be suspicious of his intentions if he only did that for her, and giving her the special treatment.
whats the big deal? its just a drink. its not like swapping spit directly. plus, if she is going to get mad over that, than there are obviously other issues in the relationship.
