What will you do if your lover loses interest in you?

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by aniking_7, Jul 29, 2007.

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What will you do if your lover loses interest in you?

  1. Dump him to let him go

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  2. Change your personality

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  3. Change style of clothings

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  4. Others, what is it?

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  1. aniking_7

    aniking_7 Well-Known Member

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    Lots of ideas these days!-lol-tongue2
     
    #1 aniking_7, Jul 29, 2007
  2. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

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    Be more creative in your titles. ;)

    Back to the question, if she loses interest, ill try harder but should that fail, bye bye.
     
    #2 wind2000, Jul 29, 2007
  3. ab289

    ab289 Well-Known Member

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    isn't there already a thread for this?
     
    #3 ab289, Jul 29, 2007
  4. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

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    My lover loses interest in me? What kind of interest? Sexual? Financial? Or love interest?
    Anyway, if the poor fellow loses interest in me, then I'll make sure he loses something precious to him... -devil
    I lose interest in my boy toy(s) all the time, but it is unacceptable if it happens the other way around.
     
    #4 BabyRain, Jul 29, 2007
  5. Taxloss

    Taxloss Stripper Vicar

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    It's not possible. I always dump them (after having wrapped them up in plastic or carpet) before they can dump me.
     
    #5 Taxloss, Jul 29, 2007
  6. Dan

    Dan 8-D

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    shit... i never knew you two were like that..... damn... lol
     
    #6 Dan, Jul 29, 2007
  7. wind2000

    wind2000 Self Schemata

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    Why be surprised? :p
     
    #7 wind2000, Jul 30, 2007
  8. philostrate

    philostrate Well-Known Member

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    talk to him first....if the guy has reached this state it's impossible to get his attention as much as before. even if it does attract him it won't be long...i'll say prepare to hook up to another cruise in case the existing one sinks lol....
     
    #8 philostrate, Jul 30, 2007
  9. chriskross

    chriskross New Member

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    Hi,

    There are many ways around this. I guess the first thing is that both parties should sit down to have a discussion and find out at which stage the relationship is now and where its going. There's gotta be some understanding.. People don't just lose interest for nothing or overnight... If there are problems, it should be worked out. Deep down, if the both of them love each other, this kind of matter won't come up.

    If there is no excitement in the love life, then go plan up something.. discuss this matter with your close friends or go the bookstore to get some ideas on how to boost your relationship and maybe proceed to the next level.. good luck
     
    #9 chriskross, Jul 30, 2007
  10. mangojaijai

    mangojaijai Member

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    dumb her ,, i will not try to do anything
     
    #10 mangojaijai, Jul 30, 2007
  11. fearless_fx

    fearless_fx Eugooglizer

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    kill myself with a plastic spoon
     
    #11 fearless_fx, Jul 30, 2007
  12. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

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    i would commit suicide too....probably....throw myself in front of a pram
     
    #12 MissCheekS, Jul 30, 2007
  13. yongxlin

    yongxlin Well-Known Member

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    no interest = no love. changing your personality, clothes, etc. will not save the relationship! long term relationship is mutual, both must work at it not just one trying.
     
    #13 yongxlin, Jul 30, 2007
  14. philostrate

    philostrate Well-Known Member

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    creative suicidal ideas!! i might kill myself by throwing my thesis into the shredder -lol
     
    #14 philostrate, Jul 30, 2007
  15. sypher

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    well it actually depends on how much u like the guy/girl, if its alot then give the relationship another go, but if it isnt then let go. I would say taht if ur lover did sumthing bad like cheat, do the same. Give them the taste of their medicine, and show them wat they lost, ie dress beta, go out more etc
     
    #15 sypher, Jul 30, 2007
  16. zero_c

    zero_c Well-Known Member

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    Tied her to a pole in my apartment and never let her leave .................
     
    #16 zero_c, Jul 30, 2007
  17. je t'adore

    je t'adore Well-Known Member

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    move On? 0_______o
     
    #17 je t'adore, Jul 30, 2007
  18. bionca88

    bionca88 Well-Known Member

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    try anything to jump start back the relationship. It that doesn't work dump him before he dumps you first.
     
    #18 bionca88, Jul 30, 2007
  19. LuckTiger

    LuckTiger Well-Known Member

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    Kill myself
     
    #19 LuckTiger, Aug 1, 2007
  20. nyckeion

    nyckeion ....Boo....

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    if she lost interest then there is really not much u can do to bring back life into the relationship try to be more creative i guess by her small gifts try to write her a poem or something
     
    #20 nyckeion, Aug 2, 2007
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