relationships suck? Suck it up. Eventually, you'll realise that's a universal truth. Soon after that, you'll realise that marriage sucks too =D
Ihhh...i wud not be much of a help cause i havent really been in a relationship before....But, in my opinion in life even in relationships there would be up and downs so it might suck sometimes but there wud be many memorable happy times. And, its beta to have those memories than not have ne memories to kepp...yeah tats what i think....-innocent
well... wot can he do to make u feel better?? i asked my fd n she hasn't got a clue... n i asked her may b there's something u get do to get his attention... but in the end the guy wasn't worth the effort
like.. pay a little more attention i guess? i've asked him to do me a favour about 1 and a half months ago and he still hasn't replied me.. and i keep reminding him about it and stuff..
hmmmm... i know how u feel... the more he does that the more u feel neglected... but constant reminder might sound like nagging to him... n i think my fd "reminded" her bf too much... there was a point he would avoid her phone calls... n it made her feel worse... so she nagged some more n so on... if u wanna b loved u need to b a loveable girl...
well... imagine ur a guy... n ur going out with a girl that's always complaining... that girl wouldn't b very loveable would she?? it's like dating a mum... just try to understand his point of view... accept the way he is... in instead of chucking a tantrum when something unpleasant just to make turn it in to a joke... or something... it sounds easy... but it's lots of hard work... especially with women coz they r always so emotional...
Sounds like he has other stuff in his head, maybe he has family problems or school or even work. Maybe ask his best friend if there are anything wrong with him. Sometimes it might be just that there is someone else....
thanks for all the help guys.. well i asked him to go to my formal with me and thats in about a month.. so i kind of needed an answer soonish so i can buy tickets and organise things.. but yeh he hasn't replied.. and his excuse is 'i'll ask my mom later' ..which he still hasn't since i asked him last week.. and so yeah.. oh gosh
yes it really sucks. Some times i just wanna go out alone and maybe date some other girls. I think you guys know how girlfriends react.
love and relationship is like bitter chocolate. the sweet side is great but the bitter side sucks. But if it's just sweet all the time, you'd probably lose interest. Ups and downs, mates.
everythin is ok...just dun let her grab ur balls...if that happens ur pretty much screwed....lol...like me...learned my lesson there....LOL
like takin control of u...like if she doesn't get wat she wants from u and shes wants things to go her way, and u dun like it...thats wat i mean by grabbin ur balls..
stand up for yourself...if you say your not free your not free, if you say you can't pick her up then don't change your mind last minute at go pick her up. you gotta stand your ground our the girl will just run all over you and treat you like their rag-doll learned that the hard way. if your getting the short end of the stick end it quick or its going to suck in the long term...of course if you enjoy getting the short end of the stick then their isn't really anything we can fix their :(
