Alright , im abit confuse here coz im in love wit this gurls she 25 n im 21 ..... we dated quite sometimes already example - movies , lunch .... last two month ago was her birthday , i called her that i wanna treat u for dinner , so she agreed ..... ..... but she dont know that i had a crush on her ........... and she is my ex-colleague ...... we probably known each other around 8 month plus ....... so i need some advice here , will a girl date u on her birthday ... do she hav any feeling on me ????? pls help thanks
wow .. guys actually like chicks older than them ?! hehe .. well .. i wouldn't have a cluue if she feels the same way as you do coz i don't noe her personally.. BUUT .. i rkn .. if she liked you .. yes she would date yoO on her birthday~ =) so i guess this could be a hint ?! ..
Most likely yes, unless she don't have any friends. Most of the times people reserved plans on birthday with people that are important or special to them. Unless of course if they don't have any friends, they would gladly go out with anyone.
thnks for the feed back guys ....... wat i knw is that she went out with her frens on d afternoon ..... so im at night ...... so i still feel that i hav 50-50 % chances , izzit to early to confess 2 her now ....... or should i wait till the right time ? -unsure
Hmm, from my experience, you have a good chance of her having a fond impression of you as well, because a girl would not date just any random guy on her birthday, since it's a special occasion for her... Besides, I am sure she'll have someone or frens who wanna celebrate with her, and she put you on top of the priority. But it could be she has no one to celebrate with... Still, you have to have given her a good impression that she's willing to spend the time with you. If I can't stand the guy, I wouldn't wanna be anywhere near him on my birthday. I'd say give the both of you slightly more time... a few weeks perhaps, if you wanna be sure. If not, just go ahead
Hehe, i'm quite sure she's interested with you ... try to date her in the nezt coming occasion ... for e.g. christmas, good luck pal ...
She might be interested in you or might not. I have known girls who would go out with guys even on their b-day but they only treat them as friends. Wait a bit before making any moves as it would be embarassing for you to tell her that you like her and all the way from start that shes only treating you as a friend.
yea i agree with zero_c, try to find out if she has the same feelings for you get hints, dont want to embarass yourself and make things awkward you know? I like older girls...... not like that far as far was 3 years is fine with me..... it is just that some girls dont like younger guys...
you could say that you do, but you also can say that you dont, because if she actually will go out with you on her bday then it should be fine otherwise no luck there
girls dont just go out with anyone they usually spend their birthday with a bunch of friends or family sometimes just close friends so u might have a chance there buddy
hmmm u must be special because no way id spend my bday with some guy.... id prefer spending my bday with family and friends then...
yeah .... that my biggest worry , cos some girls dont like younger guys they feel we are playing them n not serious ..................
nope ...... i dont know 1 of her friends ....... i think patience n wait for the right time ......... -batman
uhm... you've known her for 8 months so you're at least a friend to her and going with you to dinner is reasonable as a friend or maybe more. however all girls prefer someone their age or older... of course with some exceptions they'll fall for a younger guy, but there will always be something in the back of their mind thinking, if only he was older. =P well, I don't know the girl or how she reacts around you. you'll have to decide for yourself. no worries, my frenz wife is a yr or 2 older than him bu they do just fine, although she doesn't like mentioning it to anyone.
