Ok im just curious. If you hooked up with a girl how many times should a guy call a girl in a week? Additionally, should a guy call a girl everyday? -detect
I dont think it would be a good idea to call everyday as you might seem a bit pushy, maybe 3-4 times should be enough.
depends on da girl really is she a talker?? and if u tried talking to her how long are the convos?? are they short or long.......if its really short then she not talkative so restrain from calling too much if she dont seem to bored of u then call her everyday and if worse comes to worse just ask her haha
Just ask her. Basically, if you call a lot she'll be happy cuz it shows you really wanna spend your time with her. It doesn't matter what the conversation is, just as long as you call. ^^ That's the case with most girls. But too much of it, she'll start thinking you're needy and clingy. so go talk it out with her lar.
well if its nothing deep casual talk then its fine like see whats new with her anything happened recently or the sort dont just outta no where stop calling if u lose topic try calling a day apart
i don't know how much you should call her. but to avoid looking desperate, you should call once; if she doesn't answers, then wait for her to return call before calling again. and if she answers, you talk, you hang up; i think it's her turn to call. IMO
well if he is interested in her and trying to get her attention its not that great for him to wait for her turn to call lol
Well...would it be ok to call her once every 3 days or is that too short? Calling her everyday makes me look desperate, but again i think about her quite alot :(. no point of using msn messenger, i cant talk on there
Just ask her lar. No guess job involved. Just ask, "how often are you comfortable with me calling you? I think of you but I'm afraid you won't be comfortable if I call too much. So how often should I call?" It sounds silly but it'll solve your "seems too short or desperate" problem.
=.=" why does guys have to beat around the bush and end up with worse predicaments? Think on it, any advice here can land you in trouble because every individual is different so her tolerance and preference are not the same as everyone else's. (no offense to anyone.. >.<) Let's say you follow the assumption you have decided is just perfect. She feels that you're too clingy and tells you off. Or she feels you aren't calling enough and so she feels neglected. Misunderstandings may build up.Bad things may happen because of it. But if you ask her, it'll be 100% just right and all of the above and unwritten, unpredicted ones won't happen. How much is your pride worth? Girls are sensitive. We're usually ok if being asked. Proves we are important to the guy. =)
3 days and u want her to think that u have interest in her? no no not a good choice dude..... try every other day is fine and if u dont wanna mess up ur pride with teh asking her be like hey call me sometime or something like the sort
Depends what he wanted to talk about like something that can interest her and can persuade her to be on a date with you to increase their relationships.
it's not beating around the bush, i don't see it as that anyway. it's about being coy so you won't look desperate. ever heard the ladies say "i can smell his desperation a mile away"? maybe it was a heat of passion moment on both his and her part.
I agree with Jamien ... Juz ask and it works, believe me coz i used to asked before and she gave a positive reply ... hehe ...
but I fee; it always work out best when we ask our partners. I like having an honest and understanding relationship. No need to be confused wondering "iff this is ok or..." kinda things. Just ask, get it verified and follow up on it. Less misunderstanding and more understanding. Goal accomplished.
