You are a virgin meanwhile your partner is not

how would you feel? Do you care if your girlfriend or boyfriend is a virgin or not? Is the virginity issue important to you

 

I don't think that it matters to guys as much as it does for girls.
It may be better for the guy that she's experienced! =) haha...
but it does matter to some guys.

 

uh so? There isn't any problem in my opinion...

 

shouldnt be something that gets in the way of a relationship

 

^ yeh you say that now but i bet ya it will at some point or another....

 

it kinda mattered to me with my first one. i was pretty mad and dissapointed when when she told me. the thing is she lied to me to telling that she was a virgin.

 

if the girl wasn't a virgin, I'd basically dump her on the spot.

 

i thought everyone is a virgin untill they get married???? thats what my ex gf told me...

 

That's different then... she LIED to you...
Anyway it shouldn't matter unless the girl/guy you like is a playa.

 

well never say never, but it shouldnt be the case

yeh but then again she lied to you, if she said from the beginning she wasnt a virgin, would you be so mad?

 

Thats probably why some girls choose to lie. -innocent

 

i know lots of asian guys who do mind....but i dont think it should matter...
i mean i can imagine it would be nice if 2 ppl are both virgin and they can "explore" -detect together....
some guys might be disappointed.... thats understandable...but...u cant get mad if u find out shes not...
if a guy cant over the fact that the girl is not a virgin i guess he doesnt like her enough...
breaking up or not wanting her just because shes not a virgin....thats just silly....unless its because ur religious and u wanna stay virgin till ur married too....

 

it shouldn't matter unless she's a nympho whom had sex with tons of guys before u. eww std free stay clear

 

Yeah it shouldn't really matter much at all. I think it's stupid to dump someone because they're not a virgin. If it really matters that much, go and lose your virginity with them, unless you're keeping it for marriage.

 

doesn't matter to me, as long as they aren't still sleeping around with others while they are with me.

lol

 

virginity is important to me , i really want my future girlfriend will be a virgin . if she break her hymen by her self i dont really care , if break by someone , i will dumb her on the day i find out .

 

by herself?
are u a virgin urself? how old are u?

 

Doesn't matter too me, but I get irritated when people lie about it though and try to act innocent and all -_-! Also, it's quite irritating that some people only fish for fresh meat and not because they love/like the person.

 

yea i would still be mad....... even though if she told me she wasn't

 

Lol.....i am one of those odd ones out. I don't think i would want my boyfren to be a virgin...cos i am inexperienced in things so it would be nice to have an experienced boyfren or one that knows what he is doin.....-whistle