relations between you and your ex

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by smallrinilady, Aug 10, 2007.

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for the most part, which occurs in you life

  1. you and your ex dont speak (mutual)

    18 vote(s)
    45.0%
  2. you and your ex are friends (close or aquaintance)

    18 vote(s)
    45.0%
  3. you hate your exs (one sided)

    3 vote(s)
    7.5%
  4. your ex's hate you (one sided)

    1 vote(s)
    2.5%
  1. smallrinilady

    smallrinilady Well-Known Member

    I'm just curious, it seems that a lot of people are amazed of the relationships i have with my ex's

    in fact one of my ex's said to me two nights ago "I'm suprised you dont hate me"
     
  2. adorable_sky_dazzling

    adorable_sky_dazzling Active Member

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    come on...ur ex thought u r not tat mature as him\her??
    honestly..ur pass will b cover by ur future.once u get a new partner..who care how deep he or she hurt u.
    so hate ur ex wat for?,ake yourself not happy n cry everyday ah?
    let him/her go..
    let it pass...
     
  3. ah_wong201

    ah_wong201 Well-Known Member

    i only talk to one of my ex's now. the others i don't no where they went to so i don't know if they hate me or not. but the one i talk to we hang out sumtimes together.
     
  4. adorable_sky_dazzling

    adorable_sky_dazzling Active Member

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    u seems like have quite a lot if exs'... haha
    r u sure u two break d?
     
  5. ah_wong201

    ah_wong201 Well-Known Member

    ^ yea this was back in the summer from the 8th grade to the 9th. havn't seen her for like 5 years until we seen each other at the bar
     
  6. Jamien

    Jamien Well-Known Member

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    Actually, my ex and i are best friends. Cuz we've been together, we know and understand each other more than other people.
     
  7. zero_c

    zero_c Well-Known Member

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    I had a really long relationship with one of my ex, but we haven't talked or seen each other for 2 years now. I don't think I will ever be friends because we still held hands and etc even though we broke up. Its a little complicated.
     
  8. ab289

    ab289 Well-Known Member

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    i do not speak with my exes ... not because i hate them or they hate me. i guess when i found a new girl, it's just not that appropriate to be talking with your ex. and i guess that's when we drift apart and eventually lost contact.
     
  9. smallrinilady

    smallrinilady Well-Known Member

    well my ex cheated on me
    and then left me for that girl
    so that's why he is suprised i dont hate him
    in fact i really care about him and we are great friend
    although i did tell him something
    "i trust you with my life, with my decisions, (i trust him to be there fore me when i am in need or trouble), there is only one thing i dont trust you with, which is love"





    cause one of my other friends
    she only dumps her bf when she's already found someone new to sleep with
    therefore she understands why all her ex's hate her
     
  10. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    depends on which one...
    my last ex bf is a bit mad at me....so he doesnt really talk to me anymore...
    but im still ok with one of my ex bf's.... it took a long while before i could act normal but we good now
    good thing about ex is...he knows me so well and i can discuss anything with him :)
     
  11. Phoenix

    Phoenix *~Though she be but little, she is fierce~*

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    we used to talk so we were like close/acquaintance but now we dont really speak unless we hav to...but tbh i cant really be bothered to chat to him...lol
    he asks 2many questions about me and bf...bit awkward but i'm thinking y do u wana kno??or whats it to u?? o_O
     
  12. i don't speak with any of my ex... i don't hate them at all... hating them would mean i think abt them n that doesn't help me to move on... i just don't speak to them n don't think abt them... well... do all i can not to think anyway :p
     
  13. adorable_sky_dazzling

    adorable_sky_dazzling Active Member

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    good to maintain a gd relationship with ur ex.so next time he or she wil praise u rather than condemn u
     
  14. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    I still keep in touch with 3 of my ex-es.
    Two of them did some bad things, but yeah, surprisingly, I don't hate them. It's over -^_^
     
  15. adorable_sky_dazzling

    adorable_sky_dazzling Active Member

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    ya.the best way to settle tis type of matter is to 4get n 4give.
    is true...add oil man..
     
  16. Chloee

    Chloee Well-Known Member

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    My ex's and I don't speak to each other at all. A year ago, one of my ex's and I were still in contact, but after a while just faded.
     
  17. kdotc

    kdotc 안녕하세요빅뱅K-Dragon입니다

    mutual =)
     
  18. BabyRain

    BabyRain Doppelgänger of da E.Twin

    Well i have never considered myself as a forgiving person, but surprisingly, yeah, i was able to be friends with them...
     
  19. RiddlerX

    RiddlerX Well-Known Member

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    You are VERY lucky. How often do you become friends with your ex. Someone you love so much, or loved so much. It does not just go away like that. If it does, then it is not love. They break your heart, and you can still talk to them like friends? How often does that happen.
     
  20. RiddlerX

    RiddlerX Well-Known Member

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    Its kinda hard, there is this type or...animousity there.