Boy-friend over Girlfriend

Discussion in 'Love and Relationships' started by yumdedumjenn, Aug 12, 2007.

  1. Shini_D

    Shini_D Well-Known Member

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    NEVER date your friends ex, cos even if they are apart, theres still some feelings, only makes it harder for the two people.
     
  2. adorable_sky_dazzling

    adorable_sky_dazzling Active Member

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    u misunderstand my meaning..
    cus she said her boy spend 3 hours with her ma..
    then sure he go find his buddy quite sometime rite?
    then i ma ask her boy go to pak tor with his buddy lor.
    for sure i know every1 need space not only guy..
    but sometime have to limit it n control it ma..
    i don think he will stay at home for another 2 n the half day lor..
    IMPOSSIBLE~~
    -bigclap-sweat
     
  3. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    not only that...
    i wouldnt wanna kiss with a guy my friend kissed with....thats just wrong

    its always a bit "gaam gaai"
     
  4. zero_c

    zero_c Well-Known Member

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    For a guy its more of like, I don't want to go in anywhere where he has been in.....
     
  5. xmichelly

    xmichelly Well-Known Member

    reverse psychology definitely always works on everyone, for me. people just want what they don't have.

    my sister's bf is always like this. he likes hanging out with friends rather than her. sometimes i don't blame him, she can be quite annoying -whistle i think your bf is just lazy ... i mean hanging out with a gf/bf is much more tiring than hanging out with friends. it also can be a lot more relaxing, since they don't really have to worry about making an impression. well, unless of course he loves you unconditionally and can't be away from you.
     
  6. yumdedumjenn

    yumdedumjenn Well-Known Member

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    ROFL! actually my friends love to date each other's ex...i guess to them thats considered "cool" -unsure
     
  7. xmichelly

    xmichelly Well-Known Member


    seriously! i have this friend that dated this whole group of friends! and like, one after the other. it was disgusting ... i don't even know why the girls would say yes. he ain't that great looking -whistle
     
  8. yumdedumjenn

    yumdedumjenn Well-Known Member

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    rofl!!! i guess its the competition or something. like i can date your ex too, your not the only grl he would like sort of mentality.
     
  9. MissCheekS

    MissCheekS Reconnaîssant ❤

    that guy is smart....such a player
    I do know guys who try different girls in the same group lol...
    works for some... but if it doesnt work he just looks pathetic...
    as for the girls...im sorry but they just a bit stupid =/

    I would never ever date a guy one of my friends dated yuck...
     
  10. zero_c

    zero_c Well-Known Member

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    I had these acquaintances that had a weird situation. All 3 guys are teammates of a volleyball team that plays ever summer and sometimes during the winter in tournaments.

    Before we went to college
    guy A was dating girl A
    guy B was dating girl B
    guy C was dating girl C

    2nd year of college
    guy A was dating girl B
    guy B was dating girl C
    guy C was dating girl A

    Current
    guy A married girl C
    guy B engaged to girl A
    guy C dating someone else
    girl B single

    It was like they were on the show "Trading Spouses"
     
  11. yumdedumjenn

    yumdedumjenn Well-Known Member

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    ROFL! wow it seems like they were testing it out. but man dats disgusting. if it was like my wedding i would not invite the ppl i've dated lol
     
  12. WinterSky

    WinterSky Well-Known Member

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    wow... was it awakward around them? i bet those 3 girls were like ... "so is he a good kisser?" and etc behind the dudes backs lol
     
  13. jaychouurmom

    jaychouurmom Well-Known Member

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    maybe you should just hang out with him and his friends. and instead of putting that time you have with him to confront him about it, since he's not even going to listen, you might as well have that time to hang out with him.
     
  14. xmichelly

    xmichelly Well-Known Member

    i think the girls were just desperate. and he just wanted to seem like a player. but i know a lot of my girl-friends were really turned off by him doing that
     
  15. xdly

    xdly Well-Known Member

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    just what I said before... it doesnt have to be a problem... but you have to be sure the other(s) dont have any feelings for eachother anymore :)
     
  16. yumdedumjenn

    yumdedumjenn Well-Known Member

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    hahahaas i doubt feelings ever go away.
     
  17. xdly

    xdly Well-Known Member

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    mine did........ dont feel anything more than friendship =)